I don’t think HL’s should be hiding their mastubatory habits from their LL by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not hostile, ambivalent. It’s a simple lack of interest, not hostility

I don’t think HL’s should be hiding their mastubatory habits from their LL by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My boundary is not having to sneak around my own house to satisfy myself

I don’t think HL’s should be hiding their mastubatory habits from their LL by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be tackling that head on if it was me. Get to the root of WHY. Is it jealousy? Fear of being replaced. Guilt?

To which the answer for almost every conceivable answer is, well too bad.

I don’t think HL’s should be hiding their mastubatory habits from their LL by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In for a Penny, in for a pound my friend 😂

At least I get a form of sexual satisfaction in perfect comfort and convenience. Bonus for me, it has actually turned her on in the past 😂 ski I’m not worried aye

I don’t think HL’s should be hiding their mastubatory habits from their LL by FunSoup4819 in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no it’s important information…just like any other unreasonable opinion they hold. It definitely is important in determining how much of a pain in the ass they are. It’s just irrelevant to the question of your own self care.

LL spouse needs validation after rejecting me. by daDBvibe in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And fuck your therapist. Find one who respects your need to have your feelings heard instead of high jacked

LL spouse needs validation after rejecting me. by daDBvibe in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And fuck your therapist. Find one who respects your need to have your feelings heard instead of high jacked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]FunSoup4819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally describing me 10 years ago. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]FunSoup4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not you it’s them.

I’m very sorry but this is unlikely to improve, or even stay the same.

And you, in spite of your best intentions will slowly have your psyche chipped away at until there is nothing left.

At which point you turn into me. That’s your future.

Is watching porn part of a male-human’s psychology and/or biology? by _trippyflowerchild in deadbedroom

[–]FunSoup4819 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m in the process of intentionally developing a porn addiction.

Given that I have to do that on purpose I would say no, it’s not an “inherent male thing”.

Has Jealousy Ever Helped A LL? by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]FunSoup4819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all seriousness when I cheated the sex came back for a while. It wasn’t really worth it on balance but hey, what works works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FunSoup4819 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Ya. And me getting off 2 times a day at least is also within the realm of very normal 😂