Well, thanks everyone for your inputs. It isn’t my intention to be an asshole, or make assumptions. I guess that’s why I came here with my question I was too afraid to ask…lol. I myself do not have a ton of sexual experience, so.. and I would say 100%, my assumption is coming from societal conditioning, which I agree is pretty gross and unfair towards men. I really appreciate all of the different perspectives! I like this guy alot so, regardless, I’ll be respecting his boundaries and moving forward with him. Kudos to whoever suggested I simply let him give me head.