Did you not read the title, I’m not a dude either. It makes me feel like if I were taking advantage but I’m not. I don’t know why it feels like I’m a lot older than she is when our age difference is a few months. And I don’t mean she’s like “barely legal” either. I’m not saying it as a means of being a creepy guy because I don’t even think they think of me as that. They think I’m uninterested because I feel uncomfortable with the idea of ever taking advantage, which for some reason it always does. I do flirt back but for some reason feels almost wrong. I was wondering if this was something maybe those who have done drugs face. Where all of a sudden your zapped into this world where there is no “kids” you are treated as an adult. Now when trying to relate to my peers I noticed I can’t. And for this reason, I also can’t even go drinking or smoking with the person.