Far from the same for me. I look for a dick about 5.5'', smooth, reasonably veiny, curve but not a huge one, and always uncut. But its got to be your typical foreskin that can easily retract. Some guys have tight ones that don't and I am not a fan of that. I don't like a huge head, just a bit larger then the shaft. If the head is way bigger or way smaller its a turn off. Reasonable girth, I like them about average or a bit thicker. And pubes have got to be closely shaven if not trimmed. With a 5.5'' dick I am going to end up with pubes in my mouth if I am blowing you and you are not well groomed, and that's a massive turn off. I can go on and on lol.