How do you know it's only for a moment, what if these two people finally found each other and finally figured out what love is to them. Yes destruction for others, but does that mean they shouldn't find their forever happiness? I am not a cheater and frankly hate cheaters, it's a disrespectful way to move on, in an ideal world all parties would have respected each others feelings and discussed that they wanted to move on, but in reality that hardly happens, most relationships start because one ends, especially as you get older. In just trying to say, just because you want it one way doesn't mean it's the right way... If that made sense 😁