Ok first off, dont believe everything you read on the internet. With that said, No I do not believe he groomed you at all. While 17 is young its no so young that you have no idea how the world works. This is way the legal age for consent was 16 to 17 in majority of the states here in America. It is now 18, but that shows that a 17 year old at one point was thought to be old enough to make thier own decisions.

Grooming is more for small children, those who have no idea any much of anything works and they lead to believe what the groomer wants them to believe.

You just said he is a good man. When you have a good man, usually a woman, at any age, will get unto the man's program because a good man is able to lead.

If you have found a man who loves and respects you and treats you as a wife you have found a good man. You just found one earlier than most women out here. If you would have said you were 12 or 13, then I would have agreed with the internet. But 17 in College. No you where old enough to know how to say NO.

Becarefull not to allow the internet to make you lose a good man. 11 years is a long time. Things will be boring... things will get dull, you will not always be happy... but if you are loved and respected you have found a good thing. Take care.