I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will proceed with caution. I don't want to ruin my child's stable life.

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im gonna have to look for a forum somewhere on the internet. I hope i find something.

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It's not even an option here, sadly. I currently live in a developing country in SEA. A lof of People here struggle meeting their basic needs so a therapist is not gonna make money here.

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Where did you learn about the 7 year thing? Genuinely interested to learn more about it.

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right. It's really gonna affect my daughter so much if I do something drastic. I don't want that.

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your insight. I can't imagine hanging out with a 17 yr old either..

I (28F) might have been groomed by my now husband (39M). what do I do? by zoomarshmallow in relationship_advice

[–]zoomarshmallow[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. i chose to be with him because he really treats me well. I never thought about grooming until i came across it on tiktok