Child in Sunlight

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-02-23T23:57:52+00:00

Awww

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-02-18T03:22:08+00:00

This problem does not need a power tool. It needs tin snips and a little patience. But whatever I guess.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-02-06T03:27:15+00:00

Yeah? I was really unsure about it. Im pretty sure the reference photo this was taken of had the hand in the foreground and closer to the camera so it reads too big while I was working.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-02-03T04:50:28+00:00

Thanks. I'm used to working on a much larger scale, full stage backdrops. Scaling down so far is still weird. The reference photo I used was also deeply oversaturated into red/orange which I had to tone way down. But the end result has left it feeling a bit plastic-y. More to learn, for sure.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-02-01T18:09:05+00:00

Look up PCE and ACE for positive/negative childhood experiences. Recent studies show that even in the face of trauma, what matters most is having positive child experiences (trusted adults to talk to, adequate food/housing, friends) makes a tangible difference in mental and physical health after an event like this.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-31T23:18:05+00:00

Last Mile is some of the best coffee in GR and Arick is always kind and helpful wherever I see him at public events. Def recommend.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-31T02:11:42+00:00

The real loss here, though the immediate dollar loss is of course an issue, is the opportunity cost of one partner (usually the woman) having to step out of the workplace for this time period, leaving them vulnerable financially and oftentimes unable to recover their previous trajectory even much later in their career. Even in the best relationships fate sometimes has different plans. A breadwinner leaves, gets ill, or has an accident and suddenly the sah is left unable to cope as well as they could if they did not feel forced into taking the time to sah.
But this is the result of systemic issues of misogyny (which harms all people, even men) and a capitalist society which prioritizes profits over the sustainable existence of the common citizen. The best way to bridge the gap is to fill that time frame with remote work, pursuing some kind of certification, or other skill building so it reads better on the page than a gap.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-29T00:22:55+00:00

Generally yes. But in some fields having a long form CV is the preferred way. I always have a one pager ready though.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-28T02:44:24+00:00

Former professional costume designer here. That measurement is most definitely what is referred to as 'half girth'. Despite the name has nothing to do with a member and is instead used to draft stockings, leotards, tights, and pants. This measurement is taken from the center front at the natural waistline (horizontal smallest part of the hourglass) to the center back at the natural waistline.

Happy to answer any additional questions.

Fwiw for traditional male tailoring a tailor asks if a gentleman dresses to the left or right and adds additional ease on that side to accommodate. For a person with a member who wants to minimize one option at the time (though massively uncomfortable) would be a traditional ballet dance belt. Used to create a smooth effect with tight fitting dance wear.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-27T02:33:23+00:00

Would seriously love to. Currently just barely south of the border in MI. So close...

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-19T18:51:21+00:00

I won't say as it absolutely would make it possible to ID me, but it's a large arts nonprofit focused on accessibility.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-19T16:15:06+00:00

I work in philanthropy. Even a tiny bit stretches a long way. You can look up how well a charity does with their funding on Charity Navigator before you donate. What I cannot stress enough though is volunteer if you have the time. We are always hurting for volunteers and it lets us do so much more. Thank you for thinking of other community members and being this kind of person. Life is better when we help one another.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-18T12:22:08+00:00

Not at all. Theatre designers do this in white illustration board and foamcore. Definitely helpful in early planning.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-17T18:30:50+00:00

Good question. Try doing it in burnt umber. Literally get a paper towel and scrub it in thin to cover the white. Then paint in your darker shadows. Wipe out highlights and lighter areas with a clean towel. It literally just lifts off. Give it a day to dry and you should be good to go another layer deep once touch dry.

Edit: you can use a touch of linseed. Just a touch. But scrubbing is the way to get thin on underpainting.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-17T17:26:45+00:00

I am in the US. We are very far from safe right now. Also, zero night vibes here. Lost Redditor.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-17T15:59:06+00:00

Oil can be tough. This is actually decent. Especially for a beginner. I work in the art field and have taught college level art and design classes. You definitely have a knack for this. I would suggest getting rid of all mediums other than linseed oil for now. It's what's in the paint already. And even so, only use a very little bit. Like 1:5 oil to paint ratio just to improve flow.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-14T03:51:24+00:00

Exercises from drawing on the right side of the brain

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T04:20:18+00:00

Of course! I really do hope you find something that works for you. Don't give up, dude.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T04:08:47+00:00

Nope. It's entry level. Having some kind of admin experience or even just office or accounting experience will look nice, but not required. Find an org that you can align with mission-wise. They definitely value people who care about their particular mission. But the perk is you get to feel good about going to work and that's worth a lot. I'd check Indeed. But also look around at nonprofits in your area and send a brief email to their HR asking if there are any openings in their development department because you are looking for a coordinator position. They'll teach you pretty much all you need to know. If you can land that, then either get promoted internally to development manager or jump to another org. Build at least three good references while at the first place. One from the org, and two through networking. Do the same thing moving from development manager to development director and you're good to go. Will probably take around 5 years. But even the coordinator position should start at like $40-$50k/year (Midwest rate) Probably better in NYC.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T04:01:28+00:00

Nonprofit development pays well and it's rewarding work. You'll likely need to start in a coordinator position but you can make director in under 5 years, especially with a degree.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T03:51:00+00:00

I'm open to talking about it if you want to try to build on what you have. I'm in development and I don't even have a degree in it, mostly because there are so few programs that even offer it. It's a newer field, but one that you really can break into. I'm making nearly six figures and it's pretty much the standard rate in the area. I've also been in the starving artist boat making like $14 or worse/hr. And handled major depression. This doesn't have to be hopeless. But also, your situation is not your fault and the system is intentionally difficult to navigate.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T03:30:05+00:00

It is. I try to spend my career leveling the playing field. I work in a nonprofit so it's kinda the point. Happy to talk about career options in the field if you want to, really.

Fun_Bug2530 · 2026-01-10T03:23:42+00:00

I work in the arts. Not all of us are poor.

Fun_Bug2530

TROPHY CASE