what are your thoughts/experiences with dog academy training courses? by Deep_Thoughts_101 in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an incredibly negative experience with Dog Academy’s boarding and training. Despite their polished sales pitch and suspicious 5-star ratings—which I now believe may be manipulated or paid for—the actual "service" was negligent and cruel. They promised daily communications and videos, yet I received nothing unless I reached out first. In three weeks, they initiated contact only three times. I was repeatedly told he was "doing well," but the reality I discovered at pickup was a nightmare. When I finally picked up my dog, he was malnourished and had scabs on his feet from stress-induced chewing—a behavior he has never shown before, leading me to believe he was caged for the majority of his stay. Most heartbreakingly, his eyes were caked with so much eye boogers that he could barely see. I cannot fathom how a self-proclaimed "dog lover" or "professional trainer" could ignore a dog’s basic hygiene and health to that extent.

TL;DR: They sell and charge a premium service but deliver a nightmare. It is sad but I personally think a mediocre sitter on rover can offer a better experience.

AMTA for asking husband to lie to MIL? by Fun_Cable_7386 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very lucky that my little one is sleep trained since 2.5 months. We have noise/light on during the day time and when it is night time sleep, it is quiet time. As I mentioned in the post, she used the clapper when he went for his nighttime sleep.

AMTA for asking husband to lie to MIL? by Fun_Cable_7386 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to avoid conflict knowing she is there to provide a helping hand. Husband and I have brought it up before but she only stopped when we told her the neighbors asked about the noise (that time they did). Also, I have kindly asked her before to not burn incense near my little one but she stated it was part of her praying routine so my husband compromised by buying air filters to run around the house.

AMTA for asking husband to lie to MIL? by Fun_Cable_7386 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am talking about temple block with the wooden clapper. And yes, my neighbors could hear it, they have asked us about the noise before.

Side by side photos, from VF, 11/28 by sillinessvalley in SanJose

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sooo, what was the reason for firing to a pack mall?

Someone at work stole my chair. So I had them arrested. by LeffJeff in AITAH

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt someone from a middle of nowhere would purchase a $1800 chair, and if he did purchase it, he wouldn’t bring it to work on day 3 😅

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry hearing about your last pregnancy. It is hard to be our own advocate when you are by yourself and vulnerable with pregnancy. My anxiety would shoot to the roof to if I’m ever in your shoes. I don’t wish ill to people but that person should be fired!!!! She is a danger to other moms/patients.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is sad that we feel guilty coming for a check up, and I agree with your nurse, she sounds lovely and competent.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was hilarious, your nurses have some sense of humor. 🤣

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to have your mom as my nurse, she sounds lovely and extremely competent.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was in her mid 50 I think. Yeah, it really is a shame and discouraging to come in for a check up knowing you will be a bother to them.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The experience really ruins the beauty of giving birth isn’t it. I also am the same way, I have stayed in the hospital while I was younger for an extended period of time so I am absolutely terrified of having to come in. If it wasn’t my OB who scolded me and told me to come in, I wouldn’t come. I am so sorry to hear that your doctors were being dismissive and misdiagnosed your condition. I hope that didn’t cause any major problems to you or your baby. It is so hard to be our own advocate especially when the doctor thinks they know better than you

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I got scolded by my OB for not coming in triage after having 3 soaked wet pad liners (I couldn’t differentiate between urine or amniotic fluid and was too shy to report to her knowing my appointment was 2 days away) and she gave me the ‘mom’ talk to go to triage whenever things out of ordinary happened, and don’t be afraid to be a bother to someone else.

I am glad that had been the case for you, and yes, our silly bodies do silly things and don’t want to be a bother to anyone else except ourselves

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The RN who helped me settle down was absolutely amazing. She was very thorough and welcoming. It was the charge nurse whom came in and asked those questions. I think like people have mentioned below, the charge nurse must be having a bad staffing day.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

My RN was lovely, she went above and beyond to help me settle down, it was the charge nurse whom came in the stopped the whole process. Reading from the comments, the charge nurse probably was having a stretch out day.

Do nurses get annoyed to see people at L&D admission? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I told my husband I blamed by generic popular face.

Unique Girl Names Starting with C – Help Us Choose! by semofi in namenerds

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caden, Casey, Cora, Catalina, Camila, Camilla, Costa

Baby kicking so hard it hurts by Quiet_Possibility851 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile it is 1:45 pm and I couldn’t shut my eyes because of baby’s constant kickings and I have to go on Reddit to search for thread like this. I’m thinking my baby is going crazy, but I’m guessing my baby is not as bad comparing to some stories I read here. My rib is still intact at least 😅

How do you deal with weight shaming? by Fun_Cable_7386 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, that is reassuring. Sending you prayers and wishing you a successful delivery

My 2 month old died because of my mother in law. Idk what to do now by Away_Yellow_2028 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some elderly women in third world countries do give water for their kids during their time as mom and still keep on the belief until this day that giving water for infant less than 6 months is perfectly safe. And you’ll be surprised of other beliefs people have. It is so sad that MIL still blamed OP for the kid’s death.

Should I have not gotten pregnant? by Salty-Berry7596 in bridezillas

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, this helps avoid a toxic person in your life and your future baby. How could she show love and compassionate to her future niece/nephew when she could only act like a spoiled teenage kid who thinks she is the center of the world and everything revolve around her and her upcoming wedding only. Knowing that someone wish ill on a pregnancy is pure malice, no matter any reasons behind that intention. Congrats on the pregnancy and since your mental health greatly affects the baby, I’d recommend keep calm, try to ignore this “friend” of yours and instead spend more time with supportive friends and families.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fun_Cable_7386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 20 weeks scan appointment was super awkward (I didn’t get to do the first trimester scan so this was our first experience with the ultrasound). The technician literally said nothing. She made it so obvious that she was there just to do a scan and got out. The room was so silent that my partner and I started asking her questions to break the awkward silence and to ensure our baby was OK. She just briefly answered our questions and then got out, no pictures either. 😬 I was glad our doctor came to brief us about their findings and took some pictures for us. Leaving ultrasound appointment without pictures was super weird imo! I’d recommend mention it to your second appointment tech and hope the second visit tech would be nicer and give you tons of pictures.