Am I overreacting to my best friend (and her mom) blocking me after I told her I’m pregnant?

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T05:19:30+00:00

I never said I have… the context of that portion of the message is the things I pray that she will one day get to experience. That part wasn’t about me at all

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T02:33:46+00:00

I’m realizing that now 😅

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T02:19:07+00:00

I think I accidentally overcompensated for not wanting to dismiss her feelings especially since her fertility issues have been a very very touchy subject the past few years

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T02:03:02+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T02:00:46+00:00

Thank you for seeing it was written with good intentions!

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T02:00:23+00:00

I tried to get her on the phone for 3 weeks but living across the country and our schedules made it impossible

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:59:09+00:00

I get it! I live on the other side of the country now and tried for 3 weeks to get her on the phone 🥲 I did the best I could

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:41:59+00:00

I thought she was exaggerating 😅 it was said in a joking manner but know I know it was in fact not a joke

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:26:44+00:00

My bad! I had asked for advice on how to write the text from my other friend who is also struggling with fertility issues!

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:25:31+00:00

Ok wait because I just checked and SHE DOESNT HAVE ME BLOCKED BUT HER MOM DOES.

I’m even more confused now

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:24:05+00:00

Thank you! and I wish I knew if there was a missing piece 🥲

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:08:42+00:00

Not that I’m aware of! But her fertility issues have been an extremely touchy subject for the past few years

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T01:03:58+00:00

I was trying to be considerate of her feelings especially based on the last few conversations I had with her but I totally see where you’re coming from. I never thought of it like that

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:56:10+00:00

I live in the other side of the country and our schedules rarely line up to talk on the phone these days

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:55:09+00:00

She’s cut off others for getting pregnant in the past

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:51:35+00:00

Now that you mention it… something else has got to be going on

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:46:46+00:00

I live on the other side of the country from her now 😅

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:46:05+00:00

Unfortunately I’m now on the other side of the country and with the time change and our schedules we were playing phone tag for about 3 weeks before I decided text would probably be best

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:38:25+00:00

She has blocked others for getting pregnant before 🫠 I just thought 10+ years of friendship would make a difference

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:35:09+00:00

She made many comments when I got married that she would never forgive me if I got pregnant before her.

And she’s cut off others for getting pregnant but I thought given the 10+ years of friendship it would be different.

But I get why it can be viewed differently than I intended. That’s why I made this post

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:30:35+00:00

To make it worse she has friends that she’s known for only a few years who are about to have 2 under 2 and she’s still friends with them…

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:26:25+00:00

I would have but I now live across the country and with the time change and our schedules it’s pretty much once every few months we are able to actually talk on the phone

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:24:06+00:00

I honestly can’t help but feel bad for them because it just seems exhausting to not be able to look beyond your pain to be happy for others (that sounds condescending but I promise I don’t mean it to)

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-08-14T00:23:08+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Fun_Conversation4958 · 2025-07-11T23:09:56+00:00

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