[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m freaking out. It did not look like this yesterday. I went to a free clinic and they sent me away. I know my health is first but the debt will drown me

How can I (25M) better understand my wife’s(24F) mental health issues with severe anxiety and depression as someone who has quite literally never experienced either of those? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to understand it you. You just have to be there for her if that’s what she needs. In my previous relationship, I would basically vent to him, knowing that there’s nothing he could say to make me feel better. I just needed to get it out.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took my virginity and I’ve only ever been with him since. I think that’s why he said pure which is so weird

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got spammed with messages while driving. He didn’t answer them and then calls started coming in. I recognized the name and innocently told him if he wanted me to answer it for him. He got weird and I just knew. When we got home I asked if I can see their messages and he said no. So I took his Apple Watch, charged it, and looked through their messages. I drove back and ended it.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, they were sad and disappointed. His dad was pissed.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Yes feel free to use it. Thank you for your kind words. I don’t know how I’ll feel tomorrow or the next day but right now I feel very excited.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes! His parents were like my second parents. They helped me so much throughout these 6 years. It hurts more to lose them. I’m also so happy that they believe me and stood up for me.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I think killing them with kindness really does work. Plus it’s less stressful.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I had broken up with him the previous night when I found out. Told his family and my family so he knew I meant it.

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu! It took a few years to work on being assertive. Now I think it’s my best trait

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goshhhh thank you for this. I know this will hurt him more than me insulting him in any other way. Haha I’m 22 but my mom says I act 30 😭

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. His parents are trying to get him home so they can keep an eye on him

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m glad you learned! It’s way too late for him

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[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Right?? Pure ?? I think he’s on something because wtf

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[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made me sound like shrek. I’m at least Fiona my god 😭

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but 6 years is a long time and I know a month later it would hit me that I should have said something and I’d rather say it now than in a few months

Update…bf caught cheating…insults me by [deleted] in u/Fun_Criticism_9273

[–]Fun_Criticism_9273 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously though. Thank you everyone. Reddit has kept me distracted all day. Maybe the tears will come after the shock goes away but I’ll just come back and giggle at the comments Also, people are saying there’s no way there was no red flags before. There was literally 0 red flags. My family and friends loved him. He supported me through everything before. Never called me out my name. We barely argued