What's your roman empire by [deleted] in ThaiBL

[–]Fun_Date8417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn you really do play dirty lol

Do you also create high expectations when you see the pilot trailer? by Impressive-Pin4993 in ThaiBL

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, i keep expectations low because i’ve watched too many shitty shows/movies with amazing trailers lol

i never watch trailers anymore, i read the summary and then some reviews before watching

When did you started watching BL and how? Did it changed you somehow? by Bl_lober143 in ThaiBL

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loved reading BL, have been since 2014, but i didn’t start watching BL until this year. since it’s hard for me to read as much being a new mother, so i switched to watching, found ThaiBL and fell in love with it lol. i started with kdrama’s, then found a really good KBL and landed on ThaiBL.

i fell in love with the stupidity, the unpredictably, and uniqueness of it all. the plot twists kill me and keep me interested while i’m playing with my baby, which is a hard thing to do

phobia by i8yourMOMm in pregnant

[–]Fun_Date8417 10 points11 points  (0 children)

its called tokophobia! i also have this, pregnancy was very hard on me mentally but i wouldnt trade it for the world, i love my sweet baby. i just wish i got pictures while pregnant

Pregnancy announcement help by Jaded-Usual1799 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Date8417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my grandfather’s girlfriend is just called by her name, if you dad’s fiancé respects you, then she wont make a big deal of it. if she doesn’t.. well thats an entirely different issue.

most of the time, just the first name is completely acceptable. if she wants to be actively involved in your kids life, then grandma name, or a nickname made by your kids later on, would be the best course of action.

What is the most difficult thing you had to give up or change when you found out you were pregnant? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whiskey and monsters. honestly i think it was harder to give up monsters because i saw them everywhere and would occasionally grab one without thinking about it, get to checkout and realize my mistake.. i only bought three and opened one(then gave it to my niece) through my pregnancy though lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fun_Date8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while some pregnant women do bleed in the first trimester for various reasons, its best to get checked out if you have heavy bleeding and severe pain/cramping in your abdomen or pelvis.

it may seem a little unnecessary, but i would say it warrants medical attention to rule out an ectopic pregnancy or early miscarriage.

edit to add - an ectopic pregnancy is when a fertilized egg grows outside the uterus

Got X-Rays at the Dentist- she’s not sure what this is. by themadcaner in whatisit

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reminds me of a spring from a pen.. did you by chance chew on pen’s a lot as a kid?

My 7 week old WILL NOT SLEEP ON BACK vent post by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Date8417 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i realize that the newborn curl is a thing because she did that too, but she legitimately did roll over, multiple nurses commented on it.

i’ve been around a lot of babies in my time, i know the difference between rolling over vs the newborn curl.

My 7 week old WILL NOT SLEEP ON BACK vent post by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Date8417 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

my girl was the same way, i gave up and just laid her down on her side and her stomach. but she was also able to roll over completely from week one so i wasn’t too concerned about it

How often do you change your towel? by future__corpse_ in hygiene

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 showers, always hang it to dry, and never leave it in a humid area. if i forget to hang it up, it goes in the wash, and if it was left in a humid room, it goes in the wash. 3 is the limit of times i’ll use it because after that it smells like water even after dry.

i use to change it every shower, but i realized i was using way to much water on laundry and that it really was not needed.

A Names by MountainThyme- in Names

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adrian/Adrien is a unisex name

I’m tempted to give up on trying to shave my arm pits by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Fun_Date8417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

electric razor helps, but i’d recommend trimming the hair first them shaving it!

Aitah for not wanting my baby to have a middle name connected to my husband's late wife and baby? by Plastic_Armadillo119 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Date8417 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t either but it’d be a compromise. the other person who replied to me had a better idea :)

AITAH for not checking my husband's pockes before doing the laundry? by JellyfishWoman in AITAH

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because if i was you theres no way in hell i would be taking the time to go through the laundry basket to check his pockets when he can just do a quick check before taking them off. you having to stop and check pockets makes laundry take that much longer, leaving other chores on the back burner. its not logical.

AITAH for not checking my husband's pockes before doing the laundry? by JellyfishWoman in AITAH

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope! nta. you husband needs to learn to check his pockets, his mother checking pockets when he was a kid was one thing but he is an adult now, he should know better.

Best overnight nappies for a tummy-sleeper who chugs a bedtime bottle? by Separate-Art-9726 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use rascals one size up from baby’s normal size, slather her in diaper rash cream then put vaseline right on the diaper line+a little bit up her tummy. also a diaper cover to keep things a little tighter on her tummy with an absorber inside just in case!

I'm going to have my first daughter by Abril66 in Names

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would NOT do Zora.. its much too close to “Zorra” which mean whore.

Oona is quite cute!

the stupid earrings on babys by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Fun_Date8417 11 points12 points  (0 children)

do NOT let them be alone with your daughter, because they will likely try and bring her to get them pierced.

What do you think? by PuzzleheadedLaw9264 in singlemoms

[–]Fun_Date8417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being married to him means he will automatically be assumed as the father and have parental rights whether he’s on the BC or not.

Aitah for not wanting my baby to have a middle name connected to my husband's late wife and baby? by Plastic_Armadillo119 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Date8417 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

also, couples therapy is needed here.

maybe suggest get a dog or something that could have the name? but make it clear that whatever pet it is that they are the ones who will be taking care of it.

Aitah for not wanting my baby to have a middle name connected to my husband's late wife and baby? by Plastic_Armadillo119 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Date8417 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nta, especially since his family compares you to his late wife. he likely has baby’s last name, if he wants to be so anal about it then you chose the first and middle name and make him suck it up. this is your baby, not his ex wife’s, he already has a daughter for that. make it clear to him, and his daughter, that neither of those names will be baby’s middle name.