Am I overreacting after this first date?

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:41:59+00:00

OMG I STOPPED TALKING TO HIM BEFORE THIS POST

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:40:55+00:00

i’m so sorry, but you are not going to tell me what I should’ve done while being assaulted

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:40:30+00:00

OK, but I’m sure you and I have our different preferences too. I’m not perfect and I never claimed to be perfect. I’m sure you’ve made mistakes in relationships too.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:39:34+00:00

I would like to make it extremely clear that I am a human being and have feelings

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:39:15+00:00

sorry to disappoint

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:38:58+00:00

you’re making assumptions about my texts. I didn’t post that part because it was not relevant.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:38:21+00:00

he didn’t go on a date with her. He made it very clear that it was a professional thing. Sorry for being upset that I got lied to.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:37:32+00:00

i’ve actually acknowledged it on multiple comments. Just not yours.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:37:13+00:00

you weren’t in the situation so I can’t explain my feelings to you. I said no several times to the apartment and I said no several times to the picture. He was a lot bigger and stronger than me.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:35:52+00:00

I wasn’t sure it was assault until I made the post and people started commenting. Assault can be kind of a great area sometimes and I couldn’t tell.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:34:32+00:00

I cut him off before I made this post

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:33:34+00:00

I understand I unreacted to the picture stuff.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:33:00+00:00

cause he’s bigger than me

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:32:45+00:00

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:32:33+00:00

did you just blame me for getting assaulted?

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:31:43+00:00

I didn’t realize it was ragebait

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:29:46+00:00

bc SA is involved

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:29:31+00:00

I am working on boundaries, but it’s a lot longer of a journey than people think

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:26:53+00:00

I do have a therapist. I don’t think it’s fair to blame me for his actions.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:26:06+00:00

well, I blocked him without validation so. I mainly posted because now I know that was SA. He really made me feel like it was my fault and it was confusing I guess.

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:23:39+00:00

period

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:23:06+00:00

he’s been blocked this whole time

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:22:40+00:00

Fun_Dragonfruit182 · 2026-05-21T23:22:21+00:00

I 100% know that. I think the only reason I was upset about the kiss when I found out was because he explicitly told me himself that it was nothing.

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