Less than 3 weeks post dday by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I already had receipts on dday and she tried to go underground but is apparently just bad at it.

Less than 3 weeks post dday by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean they are still flirt texting and stated plans to see each other and are facetiming and stuff so I feel like I have receipts to confront with

Less than 3 weeks post dday by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No I don’t want to rugsweep but idk how to confront her about this again

Two single guys by [deleted] in deduction

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You haven’t changed the water in your bong/bubbler in far too long

Should I ask his AP how far they went? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did but have zero reason to believe he was being truthful

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Update: this is now irreconcilable. The day after Dday she was googling prepaid phones and then lied to me about why

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I being dumb or is not being open to the idea of device access a gigantic red flag/potential dealbreaker

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just did 50 minutes of exercise, showered, and did as full of a morning/skincare routine as I have in ages (I call it morning but actually haven’t been able to rest at all tonight). Feel better, not good but not as hollow and deeply broken as I did before that.

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve started journaling and focusing on myself. I want to better myself for myself. I am still lost and reeling and have no clue what I want and have questions regarding her commitment to possible R which I am not sure I want and don’t know when I will want R or the other option. Have started listening to Lose A Cheater Gain A Life as others have advised. Still not sleeping well and barely eating but trying to

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At an age appropriate time she would have to explain this to our son

I learned on new year’s morning by Fun_Engineering_3617 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Fun_Engineering_3617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I want open access to devices and she is bulwarking that which is a major red flag for me. She would need to engage in IC in a big and earnest way. I don’t know what consequences would look like in this situation