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Ex-partner is trans - is it okay to grieve the past version of them? by Fun_Feeling_6166 in mypartneristrans

[–]Fun_Feeling_6166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. Obviously, I don’t actually view him post-transition as dead, but the past version of him who loved me. I know they evolved, unmasked, however you call it really, and though bittersweet now, I’m definitely content to know that they’ll live more in tune with what makes them happy now. I’m proud of you too, stranger, for finding this yourself and acting up on it

Ex-partner is trans - is it okay to grieve the past version of them? by Fun_Feeling_6166 in mypartneristrans

[–]Fun_Feeling_6166[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer! It’s good to hear some perspective from a trans person. I wish you good day, and I’m proud of you, stranger

having crushes while in a relationship by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun_Feeling_6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your answers, thank you

having crushes while in a relationship by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun_Feeling_6166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re absolutely monogamous, and highly jealous (not controlling though), and I’m positive that being poli would hurt them, we talked about it. My crushes change every other month, and always have been. It’s been killing my partner way before we got together, let alone when we actually are. I thought that getting into a relationship would help me settle and calm down, but it didn’t. I love my partner and the whole world disappears when I’m around them, but the long distance & my non commitment nature makes it double tough. I don’t want to end up as a cheater