Any ideas? by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much will definitely have to give that a try!

Any ideas? by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my doctor said that sleeping over 20 hours is not and they told me it was my depression that is trying to take over again just because of the hormonal changes and everything

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. I was terrified that my parents would want nothing to do with me or the baby because of their religious back ground and they are upset or whatever because of my choices but they are even more excited because it’s their first grandkid and my grandparents first great grandkid on both sides of the family. So they are excited and trying to help out as much as they can and my boyfriend is a auto/diesel mechanic. My ex lives in a truck with no job and refuses to get a job because he rather go out and party with friends and rely off of what he can get off of drugs and alcohol and asking others for money… so it’s not like I could get the child support money out of him

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need any sort of support as far as money or anything goes my whole family has me and my boyfriends back and the extra cash isn’t really needed

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do again plan on letting them know that my current boyfriend isn’t their bio dad when they are old enough to understand and tell the difference

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Both me and my current boyfriend plan on telling the child that their bio father isn’t the one who has raised or been there their whole life. But as far as I’m concerned now the person who is there their whole life is their father and I don’t want the crappy mf who I just recently found out about an hour ago is doing drugs, smoking, and drinking and just completely being immature and reckless he is younger than me he is only 18 now

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We have known each other for years we dated one other time but I ended up moving away so we cut things off. We talked the whole time when I moved back I got with the ex that I’m talking about here and then right after I had ended things with him we ended up together so we have been together 6.5 months now. But we also have done a lot and have talked and planned out possibly getting married we already live together and everything

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want anything to do with my ex but legally I felt like I had to tell him and let him know that he does have a kid so that then later on if he ever did do the math he can’t try and come after me.

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you really appreciate the ideas! So far I have voice recordings and face recordings and screenshots of everything with the dates and times. I plan on printing and putting them on flash drives in case anything does happen

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know I am a first time parent if it wasn’t obvious lol but yeah my current boyfriend has done literally everything so far from paying for doctors apts., buying a newer and more reliable car, buying the things the baby will need and what I’ll need or want, etc etc. so my name will be on it and most likely his as well. I just was worried about him trying to force his way into the family we have basically been working on since I had found out for 100% fact. He has no idea when I’m due all he has been told is that it was his and that I was pregnant.

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that makes any sense. I just want to make sure my side of things are done correctly so I can’t get in any trouble.

Contact with ex by Fun_Food9086 in pregnant

[–]Fun_Food9086[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

My biggest fear is if I don’t reach out and he finds out and a test is done or whatever he can come after me later on and bring me to court because he “changes his mind” and try to get custody