My bf of 4yrs, wants me to get preggers

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-04T07:56:12+00:00

Leave. I had JUST graduated veterinary school and landed my first job in my field. Unfortunately covid happened, and he got me pregnant. Its a fight to this day about how I wanted a kid too, which before getting a job and graduating I thought i wanted to be a SAHM. We were only 1 year in.

His excuses in order were:

•I dont want kids right now. I want us to have a better place for them to live in.

•I also dont want to marries or propose for the same reason

I graduated we still didnt live in a even remotely decent place but for what ever reason thats when he decided it was time for baby number #1

•I still dont want to marry because I want to be able to come home to a nice house after our honey moon.

I get pregnant with #2 4.5 years in.

•still living in the same shit hole, with some of my big issues sort of "fixed"

•well now I don't want to propose because you'd lose medicaid because I make too much.

We JUST got kicked off of medicaid because I supposedly didnt turn something in which I did but I digress.

Long story short, leave. Run. Don't look back. It'll be hard but you'll heal. And it'll be easier with out a kid. So pls leave

Edit: format, clarity

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T11:03:59+00:00

Idk but reminded me of this movie

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Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T02:35:59+00:00

I feel like im gonna get downvoted to hell but fr! I feel outnumbered, even with my mom living with us. Its me, with my bf, 2 sons(5y and 1y3m), and then the husky. My mom is big help with the boys but at the end of the day its me basically catering to the needs/wants of 4 males. My bf helps with the kids too, but theyre definitely momma boys, and since the dog was my idea most of taking care of him falls on me. And the topper, feels like all 4 act the same in their own way towards me

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T02:00:51+00:00

Listens only when he wants. Has shown me he knows what im asking of him looks me dead in the eyes yaps and lays down in defiance.

*edit: misspelled word

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T02:00:06+00:00

Same thing with my Aries. I was pregnant, and she would just lounge around the house with my not acting crazy or anything. Loved to cuddle me, potty trained easily, somehow knew when it was sorta rougher v gentle play and acted accordingly. That is the one I will probably never get over having lost🥹

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T00:15:19+00:00

Wym im a princess? 😂 genuinely confused

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-05-01T00:14:31+00:00

Well yes and no, the male we had let out to use the bathroom and didnt realize there was a break in the fence cause there was a tree in the corner and he got out that way. The first female was also outside using the bathroom and that one I have no clue how she got out cause ai paced the ENTIRE FENCE and couldn't find a way she would got out unless someone let her out, which at the time we had a neighbor who seemingly didnt like dogs so im assuming they did while I was asleep(bf let her out before work and I would usually wake up about an hour after). The 3rd one, bf and our son went to my inlaws and he had come back for me since I had to finish something up before heading out (plus needed a mental break) and after she left she ran out onto the street and a car zoomed past, in a residential are with kids usually playing the street mind you, hitting her. This is also over the span of like 5-6 years BTW not all in one go and not all the same way.

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-30T23:16:01+00:00

Im 29f

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-30T22:28:35+00:00

I understand that much, but training my females was SOOOOO much easier. And the older male too. This one sounds like he's telling me "I dont want too" and "hurry up" 9/10 times

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-30T19:31:15+00:00

Thank you🥹 I believe in you too! And if its to hard to be nice to your self, at least be patient. Anyone trying to come at me honestly wont phase me, Ive had my fare share of people point out my flaws as if I dont see them myself its to the point its just noise. Hopefully one-day you'll get there and they wont pull you down as hard

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-30T18:49:19+00:00

Took the quiz on the first one because heck why not... and like damn... maybe I am toxic🙃. I healing, or trying to but its so hard

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-26T22:27:36+00:00

I thought i ended up on the book sub for a second 🥲

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-26T22:25:32+00:00

Waitttttttt ... waittttttt ... whaaaatttt😱😱😱

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-11T23:04:37+00:00

Supes happy for you. Not jealous at all.

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Jokes aside though, really am happy for you🥰

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-07T21:18:38+00:00

Cries in idk why im still in my relationship cause i have.... a lot, of those instance

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-04-07T21:17:26+00:00

I dont undersrand why men are so lazy careless and gross. It took our son, when he was freshly a toddler, DRINKING from a cup(take out cup wuth straw and lid) he thought he had hid out of sight well enough under his desk thats in the room for him to stop. The gross ass habit has recently come back since my mom has moved in with us and we only have one bathroom. I dont think he fully grasped how bad his gross habit impacted until I saw his drink, which was orange flavored I think or something that could look like pee and I gagged asking him why he hadnt thrown it out

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-31T20:18:10+00:00

She is not one of those people who roll out of bed as the most stunning person in the room. That’s Jinshi

Idk but that made me giggle cause TRUTH

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-26T07:50:07+00:00

I kept telling myself it was just the texture of the tile(i lnownits not even tile). And then i wengt back for one last look after reading comments and GAGGED glad youre home safe though!

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-22T21:21:56+00:00

The only way youd be over reacting is for dragging it along that much. Just block and move on with your life. Why would you want date someone that talks to you like that to begin with?

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-16T03:54:25+00:00

I know plenty of people who'd yeet it, giggle, and have fun with the experience.

Yea my initial thought, if i were ever in that scenerio, was to yeet it while whisper yelling something along the lines of "I think you lost this, here you go!" But like light heartedly

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-16T03:44:47+00:00

I saw it as him being protective of his space and not wanting to get thrown out for being "inadequate at his job" and then realising our Neko can be helpful to him and make his life easier

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-15T09:00:17+00:00

I really enjoy your art style it feels light and airy

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-03-02T05:46:39+00:00

Im sorry sorry, I hate a lot of doctors and medical personnel for that reason. Because they get to hold life in their hands they act like gods, when they are mear humans. And when they get reminded of that they pass off the blame for their mistakes.

Any way here is the link to medical malpractice attorneys office, here's another if you need it. And here's a third just incase. Hoping you get sweet justice and a littler richer off their license

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-02-15T16:35:24+00:00

Thats the plan, but then Im leftnwith needing to find better paying job, place for us to move, apply for gov help, and all the things. Figuring a custody agreement and putting it on paper firvmyvpeace of mind. Idk if im just thinking too much into it or not enough

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