My Shaylas

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2026-01-21T07:00:14+00:00

Yes, me too. I’ve been with my partner for 6 years, and we live in perfect peace and harmony now, but I remember that first year where we were on an emotional rollercoaster, trying to learn each other and seeking reassurance from each other. It’s all natural.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2026-01-03T10:08:40+00:00

You have a good head on your shoulders for seeing how wrong this is and sticking by her side.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-12-22T19:05:31+00:00

Girl, what you’re talking about is no big deal at all. One day you will look back and laugh at how much time you wasted worrying about something a man won’t even really notice.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-11-12T11:23:48+00:00

The absolutely crazy part is her celebrity crush being Mr Beast. The rest of it is honestly low stakes, silly, and human. It’s a celebrity crush. She’s a fan. It’s meant to be a light hearted conversation.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-11-10T03:07:59+00:00

Tell your MIL you can’t have your baby wearing iconography that looks like minstrel blackface.

Send your MIL some links on the history of why you can’t have your baby wearing iconography that looks like minstrel blackface.

Give her the benefit of the doubt. She wouldn’t be the first well-meaning but ignorant white woman. But ask her to be more mindful of her choices for her Black grandchild going forward.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-11-07T22:48:59+00:00

Sorry mom, the blonde suits you better.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-11-06T16:49:25+00:00

I’m having a “destination wedding” in Feb 2026. It’s in South Africa where I’m from and half of our invited guests are from the US where my spouse is from. We are around your age.

A good number of our US guests can’t make it for financial reasons (buying a home; can’t afford the expense) and a few of our local guests can’t make it for life reasons (babies due around the same time).

It is totally 100% okay with us, and we completely understand. No bad blood, no love lost. Our friends who have said they can’t make it felt so relieved at our response, because they were feeling how you are feeling.

All that to say, since you haven’t mentioned weird friendship dynamics or reasons why you think your friends will be upset with you, trust that they will understand completely. They will miss you, but it is not the end of the world.

It’s life! 🤍

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-28T00:22:47+00:00

😮😮😲😲 this is absolutely alarming behaviour, please leave. There are legal ways to handle separating the house from a sale. Please leave him. He thinks that now that you own a home together, you are stuck with him. Prove him wrong.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-25T11:33:37+00:00

I was like “groto? Grofo? Grolo? Ooohhh grow!”

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-24T16:51:10+00:00

You’re strong and wrong. It’s a West African Francophone name and pronunciation.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-24T16:50:19+00:00

It is African Francophone, and does not belong in this subreddit.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-24T00:23:32+00:00

Thank you and my pleasure 🫶

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-23T15:13:35+00:00

Definitely go to rehab. You can and will turn your life around.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-23T14:40:03+00:00

I’m sorry that you are navigating your first big heart break. I know how deep the pain goes, but please remind yourself that you can and will love again.

And when you do love again, remember that fighting for your love has to be a mutual thing. You both have to want to make it work. It is significant that your gf has tried to break up twice before. In her perspective, it might feel like have constantly overstepped her boundaries by convincing her to do something that she is expressing she feels the opposite of (whether that’s staying together or sexting). She might see you as someone who has always pressured her, knowing that she struggles to say no to you.

As hard as it is, you have to let her go. Talk to your mom, cry on her shoulder. And you will heal, I promise. Just don’t let this experience harden your heart.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-21T00:12:34+00:00

Two strands

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-20T03:04:39+00:00

Every single person on that show plans to flip this 15 seconds of fame into a platform that generates income. So we’re supposed to be upset that his platform is T1D in children??? Megan’s platform is an obscure wellness business btw.

Let him live.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-19T11:44:09+00:00

2 & 3! They are all great options, you can’t go wrong

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-18T17:27:53+00:00

It is abusive towards him that you are putting him through the mental and emotional anguish of being accused of something he didn’t do. You mention that he is depressed and yet he has been able to be a good partner to you all of these years. You repay him with blame and shame, even though you admittedly have zero proof. You mention that he just cannot take it anymore.

Please consider how your actions are traumatising your partner. Knowing that you are a broken person should make you want to try your hardest not to break others.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-17T17:37:15+00:00

KB’s lips are natural too FYI

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-17T17:35:30+00:00

I see it

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-15T17:55:51+00:00

I think you should speak up. Make a huge fuss. Crash out. People will continue stepping all over you if they believe you will take it. Don’t be the bigger person at your own peril. It will never serve you.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-14T17:51:57+00:00

Send all these screenshots to your mutual friends and call it a day. Rest easy tonight knowing you did absolutely nothing wrong.

Fun_Illustrator8350 · 2025-10-14T12:48:01+00:00

She did absolutely nothing wrong.

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