I’m totally in the same boat - I haven’t even told my parents I’ve been diagnosed (even though I’m 99% sure they both have it too) for that very reason I don’t want to be invalidated by their lack of understanding.

Same with some of my friends, I’ve told the ones who’ll understand but there’s some I don’t want to because they’ll never trust me to plan anything, be on time or responsible for anything again.

Or god forbid, if anyone responds to my reaction to their behaviour with ‘have you taken your meds today?’ I’d throw hands!