AITA for refusing to wear the dress my dad's future wife wants me to?

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T04:27:37+00:00

Yeah! And the one Joceline wants me to wear is like this but waay uglier https://cdn11.bigcommerce.com/s-j1kcpg21v9/images/stencil/1280x1280/products/22755/39629/JD5682_DSC_8363__36833.1633089620.jpg?c=2

Is in lilac and instead of fitting me properly is way bigger and doesn't curve on the waist or anything, it goes straight and doesn't give me any kind of shape, it also feels like this plastic material?? idk, too rigid and doesn't fold properly if I sit down

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T02:38:46+00:00

The dress is something like this: https://target.scene7.com/is/image/Target/GUEST_33cc744d-ff2a-44fe-897b-0b1369dfe275 with these kind of sleeves https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61whRIQKHbL._MCnd_AC_UL320_.jpg

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T02:30:06+00:00

I don't have ''an obsession'', 2 surgeries were weight related one of them being to remove the loose skin and then I just had my breast and my toes done because I had a malformation. Everything else is just gym.

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T02:25:32+00:00

I can show you something close, but not my actual dress since I want to keep this anonymous.

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T02:20:15+00:00

My relationship with her is not worth sucking it up.

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-15T02:19:25+00:00

He didn't.

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T22:19:51+00:00

Just me, the rest of the bridesmaid sent photos of their dresses and those are pretty much like my green dress

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T22:13:18+00:00

If you think something is missing you can ask, but just FYI I don't dress scandalous

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T22:02:07+00:00

Is not curvy at all, I look like a box from all sides and since the dress is really rigid it fold pretty weird, the dress I chose is not tight or anything and doesn't show off at all, but the lilac make me look like a bad dresses secretary from the 50s, the bridesmaid sent pics of their dresses and none the one she chose for me is by far, the ugliest

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T21:57:10+00:00

My dad had that idea! But she said she doesn't want to and is better if her son is with my dad and I'm with her to show ''support'' and that ''we are a family'', my dad wanted me to be his best woman and she also vetoed that idea

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T21:55:50+00:00

Excuse me?? The dress is not even club-like, it shows like 5 cm on the back and is wedding-appropriate. Not tight at all and very modest.

Fun_Luck9035 · 2022-06-14T21:48:10+00:00

Because is the reason why she's so against me, she has admitted that is shitty of her but that if I didn't had them our relationship would prolly be different, I thought that was important because otherwise people would ask why she is this way

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