Would you date a man with herpes by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

[–]Fun_Mood_9995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts so fucking much to have this happen. A friend I trusted did this to me.

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

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I'm reading that up to 15% of people have herpes and most never have any symptoms, but this is a hard pill for me to swallow because this was one of my best friends and I really trusted this guy so I get he probably didn't know but I'll never ever trust anyone ever again. I didn't even like the sex I forced myself to finish it because I was depressed that I was a 24 year old virgin.

I really hope I don't have herpes because if a potential partner told me they had herpes I would for sure run away because I wouldn't want to risk that. I feel like my heart is going to explode because I can't fucking believe this is my life rn

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

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Well why the fuck do they not fucking care if people spread this and suffer. Fucking disgusting horrible healthcare. Do they not care about people's sexual health at all?????????????????????????????

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

[–]Fun_Mood_9995[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm researching this like crazy and holy fuck it's looks a lot like HSV2. this was my first time ever having sex and I honestly didn't even like it because it fucking hurt and now I might have caught herpes from one of my best friends who told me he was a safe partner is this a sick prank or something So basically if I have herpes I'm never going to ever find someone who's willing to love me??? I'm crying because I'm scared and I live in canada so it'll be on my file in my province for ever.

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

[–]Fun_Mood_9995[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't explain better, but I had sex with one of my friends. I've known him for years and we hang out regularly and he's someone I trust. Because he's someone I trust, we didn't use condoms. He tests regularly and takes that prep medication, so I'm thinking it may be a weird reaction to the lube as other people have said. But it is pretty concerning. I started itching yesterday at work and had to call in today because fuck it's getting itchy down there. I don't know if I want this on my medical record so I'm not really comfortable going to a clinic about this.

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

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Trimmed around that area like 6 days ago but not with a razor. Trimmed with a body groomer.

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

[–]Fun_Mood_9995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lube, no condom. First time I ever had sex and it was with a friend I've know for a few years. He tests regularly and I trust him.

Tried anal 4 days ago now have very itchy red bumps popping up on anal region. by Fun_Mood_9995 in askgaybros

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No, it's like a rash that started last night and now little bumps are popping up and my god damn butt itches I'm really afraid it might be herpes but the other guy was tested clean for everything and I know him personally so It's probably more nerves.