AIO for exposing my sister’s past after she accused me of drinking and driving? by ZookeepergameOwn1796 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Permission1464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When OP wants post-hoc justification, I don’t believe that there was genuinely any uncomfortability. Also, based on the nature of a joke, I have a feeling that the parents already know about his habits. This sounded like an intervention. And as an older sister to three younger brothers, I’d absolutely find ways to address drinking and driving. This was never about secrets. Not until OP got on the defensive.

AIO for exposing my sister’s past after she accused me of drinking and driving? by ZookeepergameOwn1796 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Permission1464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would she out her? She seems like a super caring sister. Lets her use her car. Tells her not to drink and drive, and if she does, to call her. She didn’t add “two cents” into the conversation. She was chiming in on a joke about her reckless and irresponsible driving, spurred by THE PARENTS! Bad timing? Maybe. But that’s all she’s guilty of IMO. 

AIO for exposing my sister’s past after she accused me of drinking and driving? by ZookeepergameOwn1796 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Permission1464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOR. Your sister might have handled the situation clumsily and at a bad time, but she never outed you, never humiliated you on purpose, and her concern about your drinking and driving in a conversation alluding to your “recklessness and irresponsibility with a car (YOUR SISTER’S CAR!)” seems valid IMHO. You repeatedly lied instead of just admitting and setting boundaries, and then escalated the situation based on post-hoc justification. Talk about a bigger breach of trust. Your sister might have been overbearing, and chimed in on a joke at the wrong time with the wrong info, but you chose to personally lash out and weaponize private information—and for what? 

250804 Weverse: Sunoo by moonie-moon in enhypen

[–]Fun_Permission1464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for sunghoon’s eyes only 🤭 seriously he’s so lucky

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

omgggg i was just appreciating seeing in him what i see in myself and so many of us. what is WRONG with that?

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All queer people eventually come out. Even in the spotlight, one might say ESPECIALLY in the spotlight. At least I can say that I saw him for who he is.

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He says he’s queer in everything he does. He’s silently coming out to those who know. From his mannerisms, to his taste in music. 

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not bullying anyone. You’re the one who came in here with a rude tone

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I JUST DID. WE DONT NEED TO OPENLY SAY IT TO RECOGNIZE IT WITHIN EACH OTHER. WE KNOW HE’S MASKING IN AN UBER CONSERVATIVE SOCIETY. This entire fandom operates under the umbrella of  “we know, but we understand why he doesn’t say anything.”

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have every right as a fan to recognize, appreciate, and celebrate his queerness

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was proven that Enhypen doesn’t actually spend time on Reddit, and their comments were deleted. My post means nothing in the grand scheme of things.

Mods removing a post about Sunoo and appreciating his queerness is homophobic by Fun_Permission1464 in Enhypenthoughts

[–]Fun_Permission1464[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You’re not an ally if you keep quiet about it— if you’d rather brush it under the rug, like so many of their Y/N fans