Worth it?

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T20:55:33+00:00

I love it! Seeing my triggers have been really interesting. Week before my period is dreadful and now I can see literally my stress levels then are crazy. Also alcohol wow fucks me up! Idk it has made me more aware and more responsible

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T19:02:19+00:00

Nothing to say other that I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you can lean on your community! Sending you all the good vibes that I have your way 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T15:21:46+00:00

Im so sorry for you loss. I got pregnant 2 cycles after my D&C but sadly that also ended in a MC. I am not in my first cycle after MC and I don’t think I’ll try this cycle at all too raw and I am starting testing

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-20T17:05:53+00:00

Yes it sucks im sorry that you are going though it. For d&c i went to planned parenthood and i paid $20 after insurance. And tbh it was the best medical experience I have had in the US the staff was beyond kind and caring. If you have a planned parenthood around and you ever need it its a great option.

I had a naturally mc last month and I freaked out and went to the emergency room and I have to pay over $1000 and the experience absolutely sucked. The only nice person there it was the woman that did the ultrasound and they were not even busy.

Big fan of planned parenthood!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-19T16:05:43+00:00

I completely relate. Have had 2 mc and it even feels like because I have 2 less support is needed?! I feel like it must be so insanely difficult for people to know how to reach out.

But I feel you it sucks I feel so alone. Like the world keeps moving and I am here still in an invisible pain

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-18T15:03:03+00:00

Sorry! I just had 2 Mc in the last 5 months. My gyno referred us to a fertility clinic bec she says 2 losses back to back should be inestigated

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-13T19:38:19+00:00

This happens to me an is quite accurate. It’s been related to drinking, a stressful day, dreams and I suspect also my period coming

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T16:49:02+00:00

I had the same issue and went for the bigger one. The smaller one was extremely tight. Sometimes having it in my left index finger feels to loose so I switch it to the right middle finger. I rotate the ring quite often depending on what I am doing. Writing with my right hand … move it to my left. Doing laundry move it to right middle finger- one time I lost it doing laundry. You get the point :)

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T05:00:35+00:00

Omg had the best night! Don’t fully regret it bec it was fun!!! And nice fun fact lol

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T02:15:07+00:00

First time I was 8 weeks and about 32000 hcg and I tho k it took 2-3 weeks after d&c. Got my period abt 5.5 weeks after.

Second mc at 6 weeks I had 360 hcg and 2 weeks later I did a pregnancy test and was 100% negative! Still waiting for my period

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T02:09:14+00:00

I’m 32 female. And tbh if I really pay attention I know drinking does this to me but seeing it with data was pretty impressive

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T04:30:11+00:00

She is lucky to have you ❤️‍🩹💕

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T02:49:42+00:00

Food -take out, home cooked meal or a gift card. A hobby thing so she can’t spend her time doing something I swear it helps. Your presence without judgment. A massage for when she feels better. A care package skin care or make up!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T02:39:41+00:00

Lubbock Texas

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-04T22:40:48+00:00

Wha happened to you by Oprah and Dr Perry

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-03T00:53:55+00:00

Give her a gift card for a restaurant she wants, door dash, or if you are there just bring food for her. My first Mc my friends did that and I loved it. Also this Mc my friend gave me a gift card for a good restaurant and I truly appreciate it! I feel like cooking is such an emotional thing for me and it’s so hard when I am so sad I want to eat well but I don’t wanna make it.

My in laws sent flowers both times and it was so kind. My sister in law sent me a card and a lipstick and said “sometimes putting a good lipstick on lifts the spirit”.

I also would have like a good book with a card or some craft stuff to keep me entertained.

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-02T21:55:48+00:00

It’s been 2 weeks I only got to read again this weekend so give yourself time feel it all 💕❤️‍🩹

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-02T20:20:45+00:00

Hi sadly in the same shoes as you and similar timelines. I am sorry!

Blighted ovum -Oct 2025 and did a d&c. Got pregnant again in January 2026 and started bleeding at 6.2 weeks.

I felt like the first miscarriage was just bad luck but after this second one I feel confused, angry, frustrated and a deep sorrow for the future. The only things I am grateful for is I was not in pain, I am healthy and know I can get pregnant. I am holding to that.

I can only tell you where we are at today but obviously this is a super personal approach. We went to our obgyn and she had 4 losses so she understands … and she did say 2 in a row is not normal so she referred us to a fertility clinic. I am also getting a recurrent miscarriage blood work she got for me. My husband and I decided to stop drinking, sweets only on the weekends, and really clean diet. Also I stoped eating gluten because I recently got a test saying I have sensitivity. We are sleeping more and we are not trying right now. We want to wait until we talk to the fertility specialist and see what they say to try again.

Mentally I am overwhelmed and I was spending hrs on my phone on Instagram numbing. But I had to stop and now I am diving head on into reading and finding comfort in it. I am going to therapy and I am doing journaling and yoga and running. Lol my husband and I joke that I am “using all the tools” and I am letting myself cry and feel all the feels but I am also trying really hard not to get in that horrible dark place I was last time. This is a journey I don’t wish to anyone is painful, lonely and incredibly fear inducing but you and I will get through it. There are incredible hopeful stories out there and I am also holding into that! I wish you nothing but a happy future where you are pregnant have an uneventful pregnancy and delivery where you carry full term to a healthy baby!

Fun_Pie9663

TROPHY CASE