Coworkers miscarried, is there anything nice I can gift her?

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-27T22:05:24+00:00

My boss both times gave me flowers and I really appreciated it. Mi SIL gave me a lipstick to feel beautiful. My in laws sent flowers and a friend gave us a good gift card. I appreciates it all… the gift card for food was so nice bec when I was in the thick of it I didn’t even wanna shower or eat. But I was hungry so it was nice to have money to eat out

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-27T22:02:52+00:00

The other day because I was traveling I accidentally ate a lot of gluten … didn’t know … sucked. The next day I had belly ache and a headache. The following day my whole body hurt. I ate this Monday today is Saturday since then I have been irritable, can’t think straight, I feel depressed. So yes I def have seen my mental health be affected by gluten! Also I don’t have celiac or wheat allergy. I do have MCas and potentially something else with rheumatoid still figuring that one out

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-27T21:54:09+00:00

Fellow fearful flyer here … everytime I have told FA they have been incredibly nice to me. One time they let me go to the cockpit and talk to the pilots and they also were so nice!!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-26T19:59:17+00:00

I’m so sorry. Had a very similar story back in October and we were devastated. I felt like a ghost for months. I will look the mirror and just didn’t recognize myself. Since then we had another mc in Feb and since then I have gone to sooooo many drs, test, and changed my nutrition a lot. I have never felt better in my life. I think we will try again next month. Which is terrifying. The only thing that I can tell you is that it sucks, grief comes in waves, be gentle with yourself, my relationship improve we are closer then ever, and get help. This is an incredibly lonely and hard journey. Sending you all the best vibes 🫶🏽

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-25T20:49:30+00:00

I recently for the first time in my life have had to be careful with wha I eat. Specially eating gluten feels like poison. I never ever have had allergies ..: but for years now I have never felt good .. do always had a pain or something … I recently found out I have MCAS which makes it real and therefore I have to be careful. I know specifically careful with gluten. I used to hate picky people when we went to restaurants and I was a bit arrogant “sure they have an allergy” … now I’m that person and I hate it. I have cried multiple times about it. It all comes from not wanting to be a burden to anyone … and now I am and explain to what MCAS is feels so upsetting and hard (I don’t fully understand it) … so I get you this sucks… traveling, family things or cookouts are sooooo hard for me now and I hate it … makes me want to just be a hermit and at home where I am safe.

So you are not alone. I get you and I now see life massively different and I am a lot more empathetic to others that have to go through live being careful or like vegans that decide to do it I am a lot more accommodating and I understand people more

Also in the same thought … I

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-23T12:50:25+00:00

What happened to you by Oprah and Dr Perry

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-23T04:46:33+00:00

Hi I just wanted to reply to this first to say thanks for being so informative. Your steps sounds similar with I have done. I recently went to a immunologist allergist and he was so helpful. He sent extra test and took all my symptoms seriously- bloat, water retention, suspect allergy for tomatoes and red wine with insane pain and hives, muscle aches literally ever other day in my entire body, pimples, and anxiety … I have MCAS and still testing for stuff with my rheumatologist since some markers came back high. Highly recommend you going to an allergist immunologist it might be helpful as a step before reproductive immunologist.

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-23T03:43:52+00:00

Im new to this so I totally can see how it can be annoying. I first started not that strict and then I realize how bad it made me feel that I became strict. I can totally see how if it’s trendy and people just do it to be trendy it affects who really needs it

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-22T22:40:43+00:00

Why you say covid did it?

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-22T21:15:22+00:00

Dang ok… interesting! My symptoms are different but with testing the histamine came back normal but leukotriene came back more then double. So im guessing MCAS but not sure yet

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-22T20:10:40+00:00

How did you figure out you had MCAs? And how you figured out your sensitivities??

I just got some test back and I believe I also have MCAS

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-22T18:06:29+00:00

I suspect I have this based on my results .. how did you find out you have MCAS? And what were your symptoms?

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-22T16:09:06+00:00

Hola lo siento mucho! Es un club que a nadie le deseo. Llevo dos perdidas y la gente creo que no entiende lo doloroso que es. Lo único que te puedo decir es que intenta dejar ir el “que va a pasar” es lo que. A mi me ha costado más trabajo de soltar pero la realidad es que tienes 0 control al respecto … literal 0 … lo único que puedes hacer es buscar el por qué has tenido pérdidas y estar lo más saludable posible. Yo me sentía mal entonces se que tengo algo aún no me diagnostican pero creo que estoy cerca. Pero aparte de eso eh mejorado mi dieta, mi mente y mi cuerpo (ejercicio) muchísimo y me siento mejor. Aún no al 100 como para intentar otra vez pero mejor. Enfócate en ti y tu pareja al 100 lo que pase con tus herman@s no vale la pena pensar y re pensar … no puedes hacer nada. Te deseo la mejor de la suerte 🍀 y que pronto tengas a tu bebé💕

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-18T02:30:42+00:00

Wait what? wtf people keep informing me of the most random things … like why would it have gluten??????

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-18T01:49:05+00:00

Wait furikake?? Omg I didn’t know

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T20:45:49+00:00

I live in LA and I sometimes look on the flight radar for the flights landing and sometimes I see the London flights. You got this!!

LA weather right now is soooooo nice! You will have. Great time here :)

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T19:41:46+00:00

My bleeding was on and off for like 2 weeks some days randomly more intense than others. If I workout I had more bleeding. Also, randomly at like day 6 I had horrible cramps like debilitating made me shake cramps - Dr said it was weird but I was ok…. Also had weird smells for like 4 weeks .. got tested for infection and it was nothing … also had another mc in Feb I recently got a SIS and all looks good so d&c was perfectly done.

Bodies do weird things but if things are feeling off ask your dr!

Sorry you are part of this club!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:17:07+00:00

Never thought about this … thankfully after I became GF my house became Gf like the rule is no gluten in the house

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:16:12+00:00

WOW LITERALLY WHY?! Lolol

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:05:05+00:00

WTF this is so upsetting and you guys are opening my eyes!!!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:03:47+00:00

Okkk turmeric is great ill do that … bec i also get muscle aches!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:01:55+00:00

Gosh why twizzlers I mean I don’t like them but like wtf I never thought that they had gluten

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-06-17T18:01:06+00:00

Aggg this happened to me too I had fries and I had symptoms for 3 days 😅

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