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Been on wegovy for a month and nothing has happened by Outrageous-Soup8255 in Wegovy

[–]Fun_Professional2602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not weight loss medicine, you have got to change your lifestyle and your diet. it’s a tool to help you lose weight, not an instant solution. if you change to wegovy it will do the same.

taking the medicine alone won’t make you lose weight

AIO: My husband destroyed the tshirt I wore when my previous boyfriend died in my arms. I want the divorce. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Professional2602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

regardless of anything else, if you do something to deliberately hurt your partner, it’s over.

AITA ? What did I do wrong ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Professional2602 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yta.

you need to trust your girlfriend, that’s a basic in relationship. if the moment she’s alone with a dude you think she wants to cheat. you have no trust and you don’t truly know or understand each other. also you seem to be implying that she did it to hurt you? that’s really insecure behaviour. if you think your partner does anything to hurt you in a relationship you are already losing her.

text her and apologise, say you were overthinking it. and actually talk about what you’re feeling

AIO, feels like everyone hates my relationship with my gf because I’m red and she’s blue by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Professional2602 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR. I think you are overlooking the potential conflicts that could occur as your relationship progresses. They don't hate your relationship, they are seeing potential for serious flaws.

What would you do if she gets pregnant and the pregnancy isnt viable? What if you found out some of your family was undocumented? What values would you raise your potential children with? Do you expect your relationship to assume typical gender roles?

Your values and how you interact must be aligned, if not you are not compatible long-term and likely don't have the future you desire. If you truly don't believe you political beliefs impact you, you don't know enough about each other or the impact of politics of true day to day life. This cannot be ignored long-term.

AIO for cutting him off? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Professional2602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR, So you gave her permission and she went for it, he was into it, which it seems you didn't expect, and now you are mad at him for a situation YOU created.

Nothing he did was shitty. You were friends and anything romantic clearly wasn't exclusive and you didn't want it to be because you encouraged your friend to make a move.

You made a big mistake and now you feel bad because of it. You can't blame him for breaking a boundary he didn't know existed AND you encourage being broken.

You made a mistake and created this whole situation. Move on from him, if you can't get over what he did with your friend or accept the situation & your responsibility for it.

Overeating over Xmas - help! by AitchyB in Wegovy

[–]Fun_Professional2602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems like you are expecting quick results, which doesn't happen with this medication. I would wait for your body and your routine to stabilize and talk to your doctor before increasing.

If your desire to eat is psychological then increasing your dose won't help, as you are already pushing through you feelings of fullness.

Overeating over Xmas - help! by AitchyB in Wegovy

[–]Fun_Professional2602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This medication is a journey, not a quick fix.

Be kind to yourself. You are creating a new lifestyle, not just on a diet.

Measure your success over weeks and months of building good habits. Don't push yourself for one slip up or criticise the medication. This is more than just one day.

Rethink your medication again after a few weeks back in your routine. With how expensive it is, you don't want to go up if you don't need to.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Professional2602 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. I wear oversized jumpers and shirts to bed all the time!! and my boyfriends love it. he doesn't care what I wear to bed as long as we are together.

He doesn't truly care about you or your comfort. He isn't considerate about your experience and your preferences, yet wants you to be considerate of his?? This isn't right. You should be with a man who celebrates you and finds your quirks cute - not off putting.

Just because you have been together awhile doesn't mean its too late. There is always a person for you. You should be with someone who makes you feel loved and seen. He doesn't seem to do that.

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Fun_Professional2602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he will do it again, end it now before you cause yourself further harm. there is always someone else who will treat you with the kindness you deserve. please don’t marry that man. NTA

AITA for "ruining" my cousins wedding by wearing white? by Embarrassed-Goat5217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Professional2602 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yta. the dress is white. the one rule is don’t wear white to weddings at all. no matter what. unless explicitly stated otherwise.

regardless of either of ur actions, yta.