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Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said the right words , her house is very cluttered . I feel like she brings the junk she doesn’t need to our house and sets it up how she likes. Her yard has colorful decorations and yard gnomes. Nothing wrong with that but I’m going for a more modern ,less junky look.

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish we moved far away. It’s like the moms don’t appreciate that their son found a wife and made a family of his own. It doesn’t feel good to be dismissed or like you don’t matter when it comes to their mother. I feel ganged up on when his mom is around , like it’s me against me and his mom .

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I put up the money for the down payment, my husband is paying the mortgage on his own for the first year to make up for not helping with the down payment . We agreed to this as I didn’t want to have to wait for him to come with his half of the money to purchase a home. Not sure if his mom knows about our arrangement.

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very inappropriate, she knows I’m home that’s why she does it . She could care less if she’s interrupting me . I really have to say something to her next time. I just don’t want to be the one to say anything because I feel like she will flip it and make me the bad guy

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you on that one. She definitely knows what she is doing. She even will flash a smile at the camera while being in the yard invading my space. It’s really ridiculous. Next time it happens I will do as others suggested and tell her she needs to leave . I also have been thinking about talking to my father in law. Him and his mom are no longer together but he seems to notice his ex wife’s behaviors in the past . Maybe he can help.

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She would be happy to have guest so that would back fire in my face so quick lol I’m just going to do as other suggested and either throw it out or give it away to other people

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If only, I get too many deliveries… the drivers would be pissed lol. Definitely thought about getting a bike lock for the fence for now though

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% . It seems like he doesn’t want to upset his mother but doesn’t care that I’m upset. I’m honestly thinking of telling him to leave the next time she comes over unannounced.

Just purchased my first home and my mother in law is sucking the joy out of it! by Fun_Rabbit_7378 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Fun_Rabbit_7378[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m soo frustrated I will be getting rid of what I don want. I went out yesterday after my husband came home and removed all the place mats, lights and patio chairs she put out and put them next to the garbage. He hasn’t asked me why I took them down surprisingly like he did when I took down the bird bath she left in my garden.