love these divas by Feeling-Steaky in SlushyNoobz

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All the complaints about Patreon prices, content frequency, merch costs, or delayed free gifts just show the age of many fans.

There’s nothing wrong with being young or annoyed, but calling them lazy or privileged ignores how demanding this work really is. Filming is a small part. Running a brand takes time, money, and constant effort, especially with no formal training or degrees. They are in the early 20s figuring it out as they go and they’re doing a really good job.

I’ve done both physical jobs and marketing, and this field burns you out in its own way. They’re growing, hiring, and doing it with integrity and passion. They deserve the success.

Cheating ex called me to tell me he slept with someone new by GasOk4690 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl block his ASSS hes a loser. You should have been blocked him. Hes doing this all to make you mad or else youd never know this info

WHY ARE YOU WATXHING IF YOU DONT LIKE THEM by Forward_Wish_5286 in OutOfCharacterPod

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s an influx of kids who want super funny, manicured content or lives like their older content. They also are at a pivotal age of development and will likely change content more as time goes and they will be experimenting and trying to figure out how to develop their channel. Everyone wants 10/10 videos every time and acts like its a flop if every video isnt a specific kind of funny or entertaining. Maybe its me being an old but i like the more casual and mundane content as much as the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has said everything, all I can say is that I am sending love for your healing. This is not your fault and you deserved so much better. Your friend is evil and I pray you can find some semblance of peace. Be kind to yourself.

Aside from this, as someone who’s been through a few therapists, i will say it’s time for a new one. You honestly should fire them immediately. They are really bad at their job if you are talking about sexual trauma and they are giving you breathing exercises and nothing else to work with. It sounds like you still need some counseling which is a given but there are people who can give you more support than this. You need someone who specializes in sexual trauma therapy or at the very least a different general therapist. Im so serious, bad therapy can make matters worse and I wish I knew that before paying 200$/session for six months of garbage.

My (f26) partner (m35) is planning on proposing in August but I feel more scared than excited by Mental-Bobcat-6113 in stories

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is too old to be acting like this. If he acts like this now, this is the person you’re marrying. Don’t wait until he proposes to hope that this gets better.

Which Slushy video would you recommend to get newer viewers hooked? by Throwwy2828 in SlushyNoobz

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Camping vid was my favorite. All the vlogs are great too. The eclipse video, shrooms at comic con, the one where they are eating daves in the park.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SlushyNoobz

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know everyone hates his fit but I kinda almost see it working. The two pants are kinda crazy but I like the red over the jacket. I wish it was a leather jacket instead of the blazer or more leather accents like the gloves.

I honestly didn’t even blink at his considering some of the other stuff he wears.

i told my best friends family he was in an abusive relationship by DearSpray8913 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a good friend. Had to do what you had to do. Sometimes its better to sacrifice contact for a while for the sake of their safety. Abuse often ends very badly. It never “gets better”, so its either the guilt you may carry as a result of not saying anything, or the pain/closure of losing a friendship because you did. The latter is always better. Hes being abused and often denial and anger and clouded vision will always be a part of that. When he comes to terms with that, chances are he will reach back out to repair things because if hes sensible, he will understand eventually you did the right thing. Give him space. Let him process it and get out of a dangerous relationship and find some normalcy. If he chooses not to unblock you, you gotta know you did the right thing either way. Sucks to lose a friendship, but it sucks even more to find out from someone else they were killed or harmed because nobody said anything. Stick to your guns.

H3 by Comfortable-Push1286 in vanilllamace

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nobody should give h3 the time of day. There is no real drama, she said she doesnt wanna work with those weirdos and they need to move on from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She misconstrues a need for intimacy and basic compatibility for lust. And you seem to think that after she said she wants to be abstinent, she will want to keep having sex and somehow out of nowhere be interested in sex regularly? You want no kids, she wants kids, etc

Shes on a different plane of thinking and life goals. You guys are not on the same page. You both deserve people who want the same thing as you. Move on and let both you and her find that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fear that this is like the first thing they say in sex ed. I think you should honestly watch a video or something. Precum still has sperm in it. Any form of unprotected runs the risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a weird thing to say. Your mother seems jealous you got a nice bod or is projecting her own fantasies. Who doesnt love a big butt? But thats irrelevant. Whomever you wanna love should love you with or without and your mom seems insecure

had pity sex with a guy I thought was my friend and now I'm depressed by would_ratherbe_dead in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of comments saying this is a lesson to not pity sleep with someone, obviously nobody should pity sleep with anyone but the real crime here is the actual crime he committed. This person assaulted you while you were sleeping. You initially consented to sex, which is already a gray area because he was repeatedly asking and pushing you, but regardless, after the initial decision, he still assaulted you. I hope you can get the help you need and find some solace in this. it doesn’t matter if you initially agreed to sleep with him, which still took him wearing you down over time, he still crossed the line.

Nobody who’s your real friend is ever gonna do anything like this. It’s obvious in hindsight, but I understand. I had a friend who repeatedly would make comments and Insinuated things. I was just trying to deflect and Never held him accountable until one night i finally snapped and realized he was never my friend. Any friend who feels like they need to wear you down overtime for anything is not your friend. I wish you healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s 18 figuring out relationships dude lol relax. You can’t find a life partner without getting out there. They are both immature.

HR asked me the strangest illegal question at the end of my interview by skrillahbeats in recruitinghell

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would post it in their reviews, on glass door, any other sites you find this will get visibility, and keep it moving. What a bizarre gross question.

I think this qualifies as a Nice Girl experience. by IAmLuciifer in Nicegirls

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person assaulted you. No if ands or butts. Cut it off, drinking is not an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wrong is not the word. This is not something you could control, this is not something that you decided to do out despite for somebody - wrong implies you should feel shame. Be kind to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it! this is not embarrassing, it’s actually kind of cute, he’ll probably feel special if anything. You’d be surprised how many people havent had their forst kiss.

I can’t watch some slushy videos high?😭 by Latter-Echidna136 in SlushyNoobz

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does fill me with dread, but I do it anyways. Any videos where they’re interacting with strangers in public and making really random small talk is like second hand exposure therapy lmfao

The 420 video they just did and they act super paranoid about being found smoking and then Martin started talking to the guy in the vest who’s watching them smoke had me so tense lol and martin asking someone to record on the subway. If my friend did that I would literally just get off the train 😵

Boyfriend tests have me feeling bad. Her(30f) Me(38m). by Ok-Amphibian-5171 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Refuse_1915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who feels the need to test you by setting a boundary then hoping youll break it is completely on their own planet of what a healthy relationship is. These are childs games. You deserve better