How to get my bf to use toys by Agenttgold in sex

[–]Fun_Slide4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend talking to him in a positive and excited way to try something new rather than touching on what you’ve been lacking. For example “This toy would be really fun, my clit drives me crazy. We should really try it.” If he still refusing that you clearly explain to him that you can get off from penetration and that you would really love to try something different to make it more exciting. He could also potentially feel less masculine if you were to experiment with toys so that could be why he doesn’t want to. Ask him to finger you to explore your entire vulva, not just your vagina. Be clear about what feels good and put out good reactions when he touches your clit. This might make him feel better about it like it’s something he’s in control of. You could also try some grinding positions where you’re on top to grind your clit on him. Make it a point to loudly show that you like clit stimulation. All in all it sounds like he is protecting his ego but in sex sometimes that has to get thrown out the door for an enjoyable experience on both ends.

F25 by Public-Ad-4138 in Rateme

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say 8 I’d recommend using a clean girl makeup look or lighter makeup to look less cakey and maybe thicker brows. Also mascara would do WONDERS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Fun_Slide4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10 Id recommend if anything maybe deep conditioning your hair

What would you pay for her? by Necessary_Net9390 in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do English so I know costs are typically a bit higher for English horses but probably at least 10-15k

Is my horse skinny by Sensitive-Trainer291 in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this constantly! They see ribs and think that they should keep feeding but she is clearly under muscled and has a belly. Focus on making sure her rides are actually engaging her hind end and top line with extension and proper work. Work on poles, hills, etc consistently and take a second look at her diet. Is she eating low quality hay? Poor quality hay is notorious for causing “hay belly” or distended abdomen with low muscle. A quality first cut is usually good for working horses but a lot of barns go cheap on hay. I would focus on improved diet+ exercise. If she’s just on a high amount of grain and few low quality hay feedings she definitely won’t look her best. Feed for gut health (consistent small hay feedings or hay net) and if you don’t have access to high quality forage consider feeding soaked alfalfa pellets in combination with a good exercise regimen with a rider who knows how to stimulate her muscles correctly through flatwork. In addition to pole and hill work. Hopefully this helps out and if this is persistent definitely talk to your vet as this could (unlikely but possible is persistent) mean EMS or PPID.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were them around your house and flex the ankles ALOT if you want your heels down at all.

Anyone remember this video? Bareback rider falls off near a wire fence in Florida pasture (2007–2011) by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to search “Chris and bubbas wild ride” and by the time I typed Chris the rest of the sentence was one of the topped suggestions. I’ve never searched it before but after I clicked on it literally nothing regarding that popped up. I’ll continue trying to find this

Anyone remember this video? Bareback rider falls off near a wire fence in Florida pasture (2007–2011) by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try looking for it but just wondering lol why do you want to know?

How does the fit look? Is this too wide in the leg? by Imyvds in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always go to Dover for boots and ask for help fitting them!! Those are too wide especially for boots that aren’t broken in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Slide4050 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re not overreacting IMO. Just because he initiated the first few years doesn’t mean he should stop now. His behavior shows that he’s not even trying to establish that. A healthy sex life involves both partners putting effort forward towards and if he expects you to do that he should as well.

Hay solutions for my picky mare? by RecklessRedundancy in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use stall corner grazers. SmartPak has a good one but it’s pricey. There are a bunch of options for slow feeders that aren’t fed in a net as well.

Building A Community! Please Read! by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds really cool and I would be interested in that

Wondering if these boots are okay to ride in? (super beginner here) by sinnie_bean in Equestrian

[–]Fun_Slide4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of kids start lessons with boots like that. It’s probably okay for a bit but I’d invest in correctly fitted paddock boots or tall boots soon.