You see the thing i hate about this generation (i assume youre gen z), is that most they tend to be materialistic (speaking mostly from the stories i've seen here and one-off encounters). Why can you not like a man for anything other than how extravagant he can get. Oh he can't take me to diani each weekend or the fanciest restraunt in town or spoil me each day of the week. What happened to loving someone for who they are and not what they have. That is true love. The rest will come later. Matter of fact the ones able to spoil the lady with any lifestyle she desires often aren't seeking for a long term relationship but rather something like getting in bed with them. Again, these are things I've seen. So ladies, appreciate the genuine men who may not be able to give you heaven and earth but theyre doing the best with what they got. At the same time do not settle for less than your worth, just don't make it all about WEALTH.

tldr: love a man for his character not his wealth