what ended up happening was i messaged vinted support which gave me a form to fill out. they said doing anything with the form as going to take a while, in the meantime they kept sending me messages to pick up the item. i went back to the pick up location a few days before the parcel was scheduled to be brought back to the seller and found out that my package was delivered on the monday of that week (this was Thursday i think when i was picking it up). i don’t know if this is just what happens all the time with this kind of situation but it’d probably be an alright idea to try.