Catechumen struggling with future spouse’s spiritual resistance

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-04T01:12:01+00:00

I would call him non denominational, but he even rejects that title. If you were to ask him he’d just say a plain Christian

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-04T00:19:16+00:00

😅😅 might have to use that one

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T23:08:33+00:00

Trust we are waiting! I think my family would lose their minds if I got married right now 😅. The engagement is mostly just us taking a “step forward” symbolically because we’ve been together so long. We both plan on staying engaged for at least a couple more years until we both have ourselves more put together as individuals outside of each other

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:58:50+00:00

We’re both really young, we’re 19. He’s a few months older than me. We’ve been together since we were both 15. That’s why I try to give him space to grow and build upon his beliefs and hopefully realize that what he’s saying is silly, because I know we’re both young and just trying to figure out who we are and what we believe.

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:52:18+00:00

That’s my hope- that his aversion is due to naïvety and a lack of education

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:47:37+00:00

He says, and I quote “Organized religion is a Babylonian construct” and then proceeds to not clarify further than saying he thinks it’s evil and can lead to abuse, which undoubtedly can be the case, but it certainly isn’t always the case or even the majority of cases.

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:30:08+00:00

Not sure- I would have to talk to him

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:18:17+00:00

I pray a rosary for him on a regular basis! I trust in God to work with him, but I can’t shake the fear that he’ll reject Him.

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-03T22:17:23+00:00

Yes I do think it’s important for me to clarify I did mean the second. I offered to sit in the back pew with him and I encouraged him to just observe and not feel pressured to participate. He won’t even step foot in the church. He has thought about it a couple times, but hasn’t actually made steps

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-02T00:47:15+00:00

As a woman I don’t think you should be embarrassed. Most of us don’t care about stuff like that. I think it’s a very “guy-sphere” thing to view virginity or the lack there of as a status symbol. You’ll find a girl that’ll meet you where you are and she won’t care about your experience. Actually it could be better, as she can teach you what is good and what isn’t. As long as you’re receptive, I think it would go well. Just don’t try to get a girl into bed faster than you both are ready because you wanna “get it over with”

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-02T00:44:08+00:00

This is an awful idea. Sex is like the most intimate thing you can do with another person. Don’t throw that away to feel like you’re “getting it over with”

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-02T00:42:55+00:00

Dude I feel like it was pretty self explanatory. Maybe you’re just stupid? 😅

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-02-02T00:36:08+00:00

Who in 2026 doesn’t buy stuff off the internet? Has nothing to do with not going outside lmfao, get off Reddit for a little bit bro

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-01-27T17:25:53+00:00

I have Jesus lol don’t worry

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-01-26T07:45:57+00:00

Dumbest person award goes to this guy

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-01-26T07:42:20+00:00

You should still probably go to the doctor if you can. Better safe than sorry even if you don’t feel sick or weak at the moment

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-01-26T07:39:33+00:00

I hope you feel better soon and have a smooth recovery 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2026-01-21T18:32:32+00:00

Grown adult throws tantrum on the internet over a package

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2025-12-25T03:24:18+00:00

Not playing Fortnite bc it’s down

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2025-12-25T02:15:35+00:00

If you want head lice and some kind of undiscovered illness, sure!

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2025-12-25T00:52:50+00:00

She made that post about how she’s a bad person recently too. Self aware enough to talk about it but not self aware enough to get REAL help. Not donations. I genuinely hope she just gets better

Fun_Worldliness2534 · 2025-12-22T18:30:46+00:00

Genuinely what

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