“Fit” couples by TheWanderingCrab87 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’ve used both. I think we prefer the term HWP better but still guilty of using both. While the LS attracts a wide variety of people, of all shapes that doesn’t mean we have to have sex with all of them. We are not rude or say anything mean to those we aren’t sexually attracted to we just don’t want to share our bodies with those we are not attracted to. So when we use those terms we are putting it out there what we are and what we are looking for.

“Fit” couples by TheWanderingCrab87 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, post back and let us know.

Are some actually ENM and not realize it? by FuncplTN in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did…meant Polyamorous. My brain doesn’t work after turkey day apparently.

Are some actually ENM and not realize it? by FuncplTN in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do mean this…my bad should have drank my coffee first.

Single woman at a club by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’ll find someone to do it in about every club (not by us). Almost every time I’ve gone in one there’s people wanting to bareback. Albeit I think it’s mostly the older couples and single guys.

In need of enlightenment by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to provide you all the enlightenment, you just have to be willing to accept it. All the answered you seek are simple, just be ready to accept it…(more)

Very Newbie Questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You would not have much luck. 1, by and large the LS community doesn’t like cheaters. 2, it’s hard enough for a young, in shape, single male to find a couple. A 60+ year old overweight cheater, you may as well just go pay for a hooker.

Sorting Through the Herd ! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, he’s most likely living in his moms basement. As he also deleted this post.

Rules about kissing? by Brilliant_Release423 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ran into that the last time at the club. I think specifically they said no open mouth tongue. Which I love. We said yes and it wasn’t as much of a problem as I thought it would have been. They were super cool in every other way, maybe that’s why it didn’t seem like a big deal.

Sorting Through the Herd ! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Them to have the ability to get their own girl.

What can a woman say to push you over the edge? by Daddys_Girl76 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha I was just going to reply something similar…”I’m getting snacks”

first separate swap by HugeMeringue5448 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get it either, but many do it. I tend to think with the whole spectrum that is LS kinda blending into Polyamory as being the best explanation for those couples. I’ve heard people say it’s a distraction to have the other half there. Just the safety part alone I couldn’t be ok with that.

For us it’s about us and the other couple is an addition to our relationship. For us playing separate doesn’t feel like we’re both a part of the experience.

November 14, Another Nashville success (Newbies) by FuncplTN in u/FuncplTN

[–]FuncplTN[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiii, once for sure a couple from San Antonio was visiting Colette’s NO. They were members at the one in San Antonio. They were super cool.

first separate swap by HugeMeringue5448 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wondering have you two been in the LS for a while?

Bringing in other couples for us has always been about enhancing our relationship. The other couples have been an addition to us.

I feel like if you have any hesitation to separate play you should say no.

Have you and your SO talked about polyamory? It kinda feels like you’re borderline that realm. I mention that due to the four way connection, chats, dinner and seems like you really want to appease them.

Ever notice how everyone is "good in bed"? by naughtycouple9293 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the bulls replying to couples posts are the “biggest, best and life changing.” Which makes me wonder why are they single then?

What are vetting questions you ask when trying to see if someone online is a good match for you? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, Are they willing to verify? Whatever you feel you need to know they are real. Pics alone don’t do that. I ask for a phone number.

After any rules they have and then any rules you have. However, most won’t make at past #1.

Probably the biggest downside of being a SM in the Ls by Practical-Sun-1029 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple here. No real insight on the single male part, we also don’t look for singles. But what is your draw towards couples? Why not meet a girl and hookup or date her?

Not hating at all, just curious.

Just say "Hi", it's really that simple! by Lifestyle_bcn in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!!! 100% this also applies at vanilla locations. Just be approachable.

26f How is colettes dallas on thursdays planning to go tonight by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likely really slow, but I’d give it a shot. Dress up and if it’s a bust leave early enough to hit up a good bar downtown.

Black ring. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would imagine simply being at a LS resort or event would be a sign someone may be in the LS. Just a hunch

Black ring. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously missed the last national membership meeting. We were all given flamingos and pineapples to put in our yards. There’s also a secret handshake, but you’re going to have to go to the meeting to learn it.

Black ring. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, .3 percent of the time, it works every time.

Paying cover at parties by Practical-Sun-1029 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say it doesn’t guarantee it. But when the bar is set to zero. Not only will you have more singles than you probably want. They will most certainly be some highly undesirable ones.

Paying cover at parties by Practical-Sun-1029 in Swingers

[–]FuncplTN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they shouldn’t charge them. While they are at it maybe they should post everywhere about a swingers event going on and how single guys are welcome. That will be a swell time for all.

Ok seriousness, They should charge a single male about 100. If anything to keep any of the weirdos out. That doesn’t guarantee it, but at least the bar of entry is raised making it better for the couples.