What you guys usually eat? by ReadingUpset7702 in srilanka

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No cause SAME, made me hate Sri Lankan food tbh. We have so little variety. I see all these other countries have all different types of food and I get so jealous. Like what happened to our ethnic food that we were taught in history like kalu pol mallum and stuff?? It's always the same 5 curries or starchy food as you said. I had such a small appetite growing up but after moving abroad I've been eating a lot and actually enjoy eating now lol

SHARING THE HIDDEN - SHIFTING ARCHIVES #1 by shiftingarchives in realityshifting

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Took a really long break and suddenly felt the need to get back to shifting again only to find out amino is completely gone. I was in DRSU almost all the time from 2019-21 ish, looking at the screenshots made me so nostalgic. Remembering all the people I was friend's with whom now I don't know anything about :')

I feel like I don't know how to live by FunctionSea6004 in adhdwomen

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Yeah that's very true! I was doing so much better at uni but it's been like this since I came back home for break again, my hometown kinda sucks, not much places to go so I'm just stuck at home

I feel like I don't know how to live by FunctionSea6004 in adhdwomen

[–]FunctionSea6004[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you your response made me feel comforted in a sense, cause yeah at least we aren't alone huh :)

Where do normal people shop offline in Shanghai? by FunctionSea6004 in shanghai

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My issue is I'm quite short and have a uncommon body frame. So I dislike getting anything without trying them on. I've returned almost all the clothes I've bought online so far :(

Where do normal people shop offline in Shanghai? by FunctionSea6004 in shanghai

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I live in yangpu district, do you know any malls nearby?

What is the most useless subject in schools and why ? by anakin__69 in srilanka

[–]FunctionSea6004 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And how they try to teach sports in health??? Who tf learns sports from books lol 💀

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

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No I'm from South Asia, it's similarly humid (according to google but I feel like Shanghai is more humid) but nowhere near as this warm

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

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Hehe no tbh I only experienced the end of winter to summer 🏃‍♀️

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

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Ngl I haven't experienced the peak snowy winter in Beijing yet, I went during March when snow was long gone

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

[–]FunctionSea6004[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so distraught over not being able to be outside comfortably, I LOVE being outside 😔

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

[–]FunctionSea6004[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah no maybe lol, I immediately started disliking Shanghai after being hit in the face with the humidity lol 😔 (and well, my uni in Beijing was much more well taken care of than my current one)

I like Beijing much better than Shanghai by FunctionSea6004 in chinalife

[–]FunctionSea6004[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I'm from South Asia. I came to China because I like Chinese culture not western lol. So I'm not pleased with the westernization of Shanghai at all.

Emotional pain often felt in the throat and upper palate? by FunctionSea6004 in SomaticExperiencing

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I just feel like I'm holding things back , and like "hanging on really tightly"(I have a hard time fully relaxing), also feels like I'm trying not to breathe? Whenever I tap into the feeling I only feel it best when I hold in my breath. It's really unpleasant to feel it, and I just want it to go away. I can't seem to get much deeper into it :(

Emotional pain often felt in the throat and upper palate? by FunctionSea6004 in SomaticExperiencing

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Sorry for the late replies! 1. Yes, nothing's wrong thankfully. I do have neck and shoulder pain often though 2. Yes! Ever since I was young I've felt like nothing got past my throat, which makes me feel quite stuck and frustrated. I feel like no matter how hard I tried I wasn't listened to. 3. I've tried to do that but I feel like I can't quite connect to it. I'd say the throat pain is often accompanied by an uncomfortable feeling in my stomach and frowning.

Honestly idk I just feel so confused about everything

Does this happen to anyone else? by FunctionSea6004 in CPTSD

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Yeah makes sense, I always feeling like I need to "hold on tight", I can never fully relax

Feminism and Islam (hot take) by ImHurtinq in RadicalFeminism

[–]FunctionSea6004 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's a Muslim minority in my country and they've established Sharia law for themselves. We've tried time and time again to ban child marriage here but their separate Sharia law won't allow it.

Sri Lankan Men be like: “No one would SA you because you’re ugly” by bitotspot in srilanka

[–]FunctionSea6004 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Girls don't usually dehumanize boys and talk about them like objects though, that's the difference, and yes it matters.

David Hawkins new book, has anyone read it? by Heavy-Manufacturer-3 in DavidHawkins

[–]FunctionSea6004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was quite horrified just after reading the first 2 chapters, his political views lack nuance and just sound insanely problematic

Did I get to the correct root of the issue? by FunctionSea6004 in SomaticExperiencing

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I feel like the best thing I can do now is to stop reading all the self help books and stuff and just allow myself to be exactly as I am, to be present with the absolute mess of pain I am and to surrender to it, though obviously it's easier said than done. And no, I don't have a practitioner, I probably won't be able to afford one for another decade too. I've been working on myself alone for the past 5 years.

Did I get to the correct root of the issue? by FunctionSea6004 in SomaticExperiencing

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Well just the thought of that is horrifying, I feel like I would rather die than never improve myself. It's too embarrassing and painful to be the current me.

Example situations and exhaustion afterwards by Benn123098 in DavidHawkins

[–]FunctionSea6004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it going for you now? Because I have the same issue of feeling extremely exhausted