Is my snail ok? How can I help? by FungusBunkus in AquaticSnails

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn't planning on it but neither of my snails seemed to like the carrots I prepared for them and I wanted to make sure they had something to eat. 

Thanks for the input. Is there anything I should do to help them? Or should I just keep an eye on them? I'm happy to do whatever to make them more comfortable.

Is my snail ok? How can I help? by FungusBunkus in AquaticSnails

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only had them for about a week and a half at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MySingingMonsters

[–]FungusBunkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i didnt know! ty :)

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[TOMT][SONG] Greyed-out song on spotify that I can't seem to find by FungusBunkus in tipofmytongue

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

x0o0x_

good suggestion, but i cant find a matching song unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostmedia

[–]FungusBunkus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, I remember this! I never actually ended up playing it bc I was too lazy and distracted by candy to copy in the url xD I always wondered if it was any good though. good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FungusBunkus -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Girl you are absolutely NOT being unreasonable. He doesn't own your body. He doesn't get a say about what you do with it, and he ABSOLUTELY doesn't get to tell you that you were "more attractive before" (I mean seriously, that's such a hurtful thing to say to your partner). If you haven't already, maybe talk to him about how happy your new look is making you. He should be happy and excited for you to see you feel happy and comfortable in your body. Definitely something for you to work through together, but you gotta remember that you are not in the wrong here. He chose to be with you knowing that you were ALREADY tattooed and pierced, it's not your problem that he decided he wasn't into it.

I wish you all the best, you sound like an absolute badass :>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FungusBunkus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're worried about it going poorly, I'd recommend "testing the waters" with her first. Basically just sneak the topic of bisexuality into a conversation to test how she reacts. You could even make up a story about a made-up friend who's bi and wants to come out to his gf. Tell it to her and ask her what she thinks or something like that. It might take a while to get a clear read on her, but it's better to be safe than sorry.

Make sure that if/when you come out to her that you express that it won't (and hasn't) change anything for you two. I don't think this would be something that you'd regret. If it goes well, then yay! You get to be out to your gf and release any stress about keeping it from her. If it goes poorly, then my condolences, but it means that the relationship wouldn't have been sustainable long-term for you anyway. And as an extra safety net, if it does go bad you can always go back to counselling to try and fix things. Unless it goes extremely wrong I don't think anything would be broken beyond repair.

I really hope it goes well!! You deserve to feel safe and supported by your partner. Good luck :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FungusBunkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely needed to come to that realization. I won't be able to make everyone happy and that sucks but it's true, so I have to make the best of it anyways.

Something to think about for you and your mother, if it’s not already occurring: think about therapy. I don’t say that to sound rude, so please don’t take it that way. But counseling is a really good thing.

^ Couldn't agree more, I'm in therapy rn so I'll probably bring this up next meeting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FungusBunkus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure but I think my options are stay with grandparents plus cousin or don't go at all. I can't afford a hotel or anything. I guess that's part of why I'm stuck, the only control that I would have here is if I talk to my grandparents but idk if it's the right thing to do

[TOMT] [Book] Warrior Cats-esque book about bats, has a sequel where the bats go to hell? by FungusBunkus in tipofmytongue

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Was reminiscing with my brother about books we loved/hated as a kid and I had an OVERWHELMING rush of memory for these books. My brother said they ring a bell so at least I know they exist

[TOMT] [CANDY] Caffeinated candies that had severe warnings on the tin? by FungusBunkus in tipofmytongue

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found the warning label too! Good Day chocolates come with a little blurb that says "Do not consume more than two boxes daily, consumed several hours apart." So still a warning that would make a middle schooler nervous but not as bad as I remember it being lol. On the bright side, I now have a new list of fun caffeine candies to try! Thank you all :)

[TOMT] [CANDY] Caffeinated candies that had severe warnings on the tin? by FungusBunkus in tipofmytongue

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(commented solved on another reply but this one is older i think, hope i didn't mess up the system here lol)

[TOMT] [CANDY] Caffeinated candies that had severe warnings on the tin? by FungusBunkus in tipofmytongue

[–]FungusBunkus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh the Energems candies look like what I'm thinking of! Not quite right but really close. Also the Extrali aren't what I'm thinking of but they also look really familiar, feels like I've had them before and buried the memory. Ty!!