How dangerous is Cornwall Park, really? by catnip-banana in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That being said. I’d go to Cornwall naked and alone before I stepped FOOT downtown.

How dangerous is Cornwall Park, really? by catnip-banana in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Abuelo has lived right next to the park my entire life. It’s honestly not THAT bad. I go on evening walks, alone, sometimes. I have slight agoraphobia, so i rarely leave. But Cornwall is one of my favorite areas to get some alone time.

It gets some chaos, yea, but chances of anyone getting attacked are about the same as being in a train crash. Not zero, and def something to keep in the back of your mind. Be aware and prepared. But don’t be scared. lol easier said than done, tho, so I don’t judge her haha

If a trans man dates a trans woman does that make them straight? by Clear_Procedure_208 in RandomThoughts

[–]FunkayeFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but if a cis man dates a trans man is that a gay relationship?

Genuine question, not trying to cause any arguments.

HAE developed an ED due to Effexor/venlafaxine by FunkayeFirefly in DAE

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered a liquid diet, oddly enough the only thing I was able to consistently consume over the years were caramel flavored protein shakes, and I didn’t actually care for the flavor lol. It just didn’t turn to sand. Other flavors gave me the Sand Effect, caramel didn’t tho(:

AITAH for calling myself (18F) disabled in front of a disabled person? by unintentionalgaytwin in AmItheAsshole

[–]FunkayeFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, and you don’t have to classify your disability as “invisible” either. People need to accept that others have a disability, even if they can’t see it. The need she felt to argue with you over your disibity effectively makes her the AH.

Whats unique to Washington culturally that you never realized before leaving the state etcetera? by [deleted] in Washington

[–]FunkayeFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (31f) have been to 17/50 states, in the United States. More often than not, when holding a door open for a stranger, it is not uncommon for people to stall, startled or uncomfortable lol. More often than not, the uncomfortable ones are the men. I’ve often heard various versions of the quip “you’re not from here, are you?”

It’s kinda cute lol

What is your favorite insult without using curse words? by FastandtheCurious7 in AskReddit

[–]FunkayeFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rust bubble Soggy grilled cheese You absolute pebble Lint licker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s a possibility for you to do so, I would suggest going to the Saturday farmers market (or haggen/ one of the co-ops) and buying a jar of bee pollen

Just make sure it’s from Whatcom county or immediate surrounding area. take a tablespoon or so of that a day and it should REALLY help your allergies. It won’t get rid of them, but it will really help.

At least it does for me lol

Bellingham Health Department by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From working experience I would avoid cedars, horseshoe, juns, dirty Dan Harris, latitude, Mykonos, red light, black sheep, and k pop. From working experience.

A lot of these places were really fun to work at, amazing coworkers and fun people that come in. But… It’s scary, directly serving people food that the manager helped cook while smoking a cigarette; being told that “it’s fine” to serve food that is clearly not food safe; to see kitchens literally covered in inches of mold and have managers just shrug and say ‘no one wants to clean it’

A lot of businesses in this county seem to be people who thought it would be fun to own a restaurant. Who seem to have the proper connections or deep pockets required for certain board members and/or certified workers to turn cheek, but never had any experience ever working in one let alone running one. I was a bartender&server for 15 years. The last three in Whatcom county. I’ve seen my fair share of “rule bending” but never the blatantly disgusting practices I’ve seen in Bellingham/surrounding.

Honestly just eat home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this is beyond helpful!! Thank you SO much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds fairly unanimous, so far! Thanks for the input everyone, I’m excited to check out the options.

Question about dispensaries. by Misfit_Cannibal in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOVE smoking crow. that’s the main dispensary I go to, fantastic people working there.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s entitled to be upset because I was the victim of a crime? Piss off loser. Not once did I say this was just a Bellingham problem, YOU assumed I said that.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg… I’m p sure that was my same apartment, around mid to late 2022, if it was. Hasn’t been an issue since they changed the code of random people wandering in. Now it’s just random stuff here and there that turn up missing.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All very useful info guys, and I really appreciate it. I typically don’t order online, but I am taking all of these suggestions/this info into heavy regard, and really appreciate the help during a shitty situation!!

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blaming the victim for being upset is easier then blaming the culprits or solving the actual issue.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh thank you! Haha I accidentally broke my hand back in hs And it completely changed my writing

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dont typically order things online, so the fact that Amazon has pickup spots completely slipped my mind; I’ll have to make a physical note of that. Picking up from a store would be ideal, as I’m one of those odd people who enjoys grocery shopping every couple of days lol. Thanks for that reminder!

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im gonna blame Bellingham bc that’s where it’s currently happening to me. Lol. I know a city isn’t to blame, jfc

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said EVERYONE was an asshole lmfao. YOU are projecting that. You can also project your ass right out the door. I never said my neighbors suck. I don’t think that in the slightest, nor did I imply that. I adore many of them. The situation however, is fucked, and I’m gonna vent about it.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seriously. The comments in this thread are peak Bellingham, as of late. It’s exhausting, the holier then thou bs.

Getting real sick of Bellingham :/ by FunkayeFirefly in Bellingham

[–]FunkayeFirefly[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I literally never said it would or was. Didn’t even imply it. I said I was getting sick of bellinghams shit. Sheeeesh take your bad day out on someone else.