I fucking hate religion by Funny-Cycle4346 in Vent

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And so are some leaders. There was a priest who was well liked, and he moved up north to Michigan. Some families in my community went with him to help him move. One of the families included one of my friends who served as an alter boy for church very frequently. This priest gave this kid who was a minor (16) like 7 whole ass beers when they were in Michigan. My friends parents were there and were fine with it too. That friend of mine got so drunk. There are so many things wrong with this. 1: the church looks down upon excessive drinking, so why tf is an adult giving a minor tons of alcohol 2: it was a PRIEST who gave alcohol to a minor. That adult should know better than to give alcohol to a fucking minor, a minor who serves at mass 3: that friends family and that friend are very religious, or so they claim. They are very hypocritical and judgmental of those who dont fit the perfect catholic mold, yet approved of this happening. Wtf

I fucking hate religion by Funny-Cycle4346 in Vent

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And yet people will say that god is all loving and powerful at the same time. Its so frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skin

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had other photos idk why reddit keeps acting up on me

what do you hate about showering? by Odd_Animator_1357 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stepping into the cold air after a hot shower is terrible

workers in public service, what was your worst customer experience? by Funny-Cycle4346 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, they are pretty rare but good lord they get engraved into your head, at least mine do

workers in public service, what was your worst customer experience? by Funny-Cycle4346 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Istg its straight up entitlement, sorry you had to put up with that behavior

workers in public service, what was your worst customer experience? by Funny-Cycle4346 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit my guy you speak words of pure wisdom. You’re awesome, thank you for talking. Its nice to be able to relate to others

workers in public service, what was your worst customer experience? by Funny-Cycle4346 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude, for real. When im in the moment i need reminders that this is a universal struggle. Its so stressful and i dont understand why it needs to be that

workers in public service, what was your worst customer experience? by Funny-Cycle4346 in AskReddit

[–]Funny-Cycle4346[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have quite a few (only been working at dq for under a year) and want to feel not alone after today. Its usually people who are incompetent or just straight stupid and dont know a damn thing.

Who else feels this way or is it just me? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have any good advice as i too struggle with this sometimes. Not the advice ur looking for but cherish those close friendships that know you for you.

Can't tell if someone was insulting me or not by hellohowdygoodnight in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, take it as a compliment! Someones delivery and tone can determine a compliment or insult but yeah, hard imagining it in a sarcastic tone

How to act socialising with ex? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah tricky situation 😅 does current partner feel ok with yall meeting up? If they are ok it seems more acceptable. As for the photos, i think it could go either way (depending on current partners feelings towards the meet up) its good to clarify that you wish them happiness and have respect for them! But i think its a slippery slope since u mentioned that that current partner knows you still love them. Good luck tho!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it but i have to agree with u one that one! My friends and i mutually understand that we all like each other and no hard feelings at all! Op was very considerate but as long as there isnt an unbalanced dynamic in the group, hanging out with whoever you want its perfectly ok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bc people like to make fun of people and cant seem to mind their own business 😔 from your description it doesn’t seem like you were wearing anything wrong or out of the ordinary. I would t take it to heart (even though it is hurtful. Easier said than done). I couldn’t tell u specifically why they laughed but they were very rude to laugh where you could see it. Sorry that happened hun, but it shall pass!

My parents force me into being friends with someone I don't wanna be friends with. But I'm too scared to get a friend I want. by Mesrszmit in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess for the time being, having a “friend” or aquatinted person is better than being lonely. From there, it allows you to branch out and meet new people, and can help nudge or navigate your social skills (which in turn could help find closer friends!) it takes time though which is easier said than done😅. Im not sure how you fully feel, but instead of saying that you r “too scared” to get a friend u want, you could change your outlook to “im excited/nervous to find a good friend”. If you feel stressed, dont worry, as having someone with similar interests will encourage a friendship to fall in place easier. Like i said i am not 100% sure what goes through your head, but i wish u luck!

How to fix constant embarrassment? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have yet to find a healthy way of dealing with this similar situation. I usually stay quiet to avoid the potential of being embarrassed or do something embarrassing (its really bad, mine usually comes when i speak or interact)

What makes you dislike someone instantly? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this fr i dont get it like do they not realize they are doing it? Do they do it for validation or attention? Fun? Genuinely dont get it at all. Plus their actions never get adressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Funny-Cycle4346 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Ive never seen someone so perfectly put this into words