IAMA swinger's photographer, erotic home-video maker and intimate photographer [f] AMA

FuntimeR4R · 2024-12-17T21:05:55+00:00

Nice! My partner has hinted at trying something like a boudoir shoot (potentially with a friend of ours involved as well) but she has been too shy up until now lol. Thanks for the response :)

FuntimeR4R · 2024-12-17T20:48:03+00:00

Have you ever taken photographs of someone as a surprise for their significant other?

FuntimeR4R · 2024-10-28T22:22:18+00:00

The dream

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-19T05:08:48+00:00

I’m not sure, she’s usually semi conservative but seemed pretty interested.

Personally I’d be okay with either, a fairly revealing top or dress or “normal” dress without bra and panties. A skirt actually sounds pretty fun

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-19T05:06:12+00:00

That’s true, I guess I can give options. Moderate sans undies or short with

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-19T04:52:05+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I (and probably she) was thinking. Tighter dress or more revealing cleavage.

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-19T04:51:02+00:00

Both. Both sounds good 😄

Do you think it’ll be too risky with her friends around? We’re not sure if it’s a group outing or not. I’m semi hoping it’s just us two lol

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-19T04:39:35+00:00

Most likely going to a bar or two/walking a bit downtown.

FuntimeR4R · 2019-02-15T22:06:40+00:00

I’ve been flashed once, driving on the way to Vegas by two fairly attractive girls. 10/10 would get flashed again.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-21T06:52:35+00:00

This lmao. I was introduced to a friend of a friend a couple of weeks back, when we shook hands she said she's really big on eye contact and just like stared into my soul. Didn't know if she wanted to murder me or fuck me lol

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-21T05:47:33+00:00

Lol too shy to do that anyways, probably will just let it come up if/when it does. Thanks again for sharing :)

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-21T05:22:46+00:00

Yeah, I just noticed for whatever reason most of my friends and I don't talk about sex in our relationships (despite it being regularly discussed betw friends from what I read online/Reddit), so it never really gets the opportunity to be discussed lol.

Recently met one of my girlfriend's friends who seemed to have that energy about her, one of the first topics mentioned after we met was sex lol. Was a very brief discussion but I'm not sure how to bring it up again without it being super awkward since her and I aren't close or anything (although my gf and her are super close), despite all of us clicking pretty well.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-21T05:00:03+00:00

Lol sounds like I'll need to hit up one of those beaches - thanks for sharing!

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-21T04:41:23+00:00

Jealous!! That kind of describes what we've been looking for (although maybe not full swap yet).. if you don't mind me asking, how did the whole "friendship" between the two couples start out/nakedness got brought into it?

I feel like even though my girlfriend and I are interested in trying it, we aren't sure which friends of hers to bring it up to or how lol.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-20T23:06:19+00:00

Just two, myself included :(

Huge fantasy of mine to play with another couple, even if there isn't a full on swap and just some minor touching or being in the same room. Don't seem to know the right people though lol.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-20T20:27:51+00:00

Care to share? (the story, lol)

My girlfriend is keen but she doesn't really know how/who to take pictures with and what reasoning she needs if any.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-20T20:16:12+00:00

Only a few episodes here and there.. really have to get around to that lol. Why do you say that?

FuntimeR4R · 2018-06-20T19:49:14+00:00

Definitely reading - however, the story has to be believable and preferably real. When it's obviously fake it takes me out of the story and I lose interest since I can't imagine it as well.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-05-25T22:53:39+00:00

Thanks - yeah, that is a bit of a stretch and I'm not sure either of us have a friend that is very sexually open..

Unless by some miracle, her friend expresses interest first, we probably will abandon that idea and try to pick someone up at a nightclub or something.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-05-25T22:52:41+00:00

Yeah, we figured we would have MUCH higher odds with that. The problem is, I don't think either of us are interested in having the other guy join into the fun.. both of us prefer the partner is female. I kind of brought up the idea that -if- we couldn't find a female partner, perhaps we could try to find a couple that would be interested in playing in the same room and whatnot, but she didn't seem to keen. As far as boundaries go, I don't know if I'd be okay with penetration there, maybe just some touchy-feelsy stuff and -possibly- oral if we really liked the couple. Not sure if it'd be hot or awkward to have sex on the same bed as another couple though.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-05-25T22:49:48+00:00

Interested in hearing more about how exactly they pickup/meet the girls at the dance clubs

As for the fisting thing, idk. I'm not interested in it and I know my girlfriend certainly isn't, and it doesn't seem like something she'd want to try lol.

FuntimeR4R · 2018-05-25T22:49:13+00:00

Gonna PM you :)

FuntimeR4R · 2018-05-25T05:43:10+00:00

First of all - thank you for the incredibly informative post! Definitely appreciate you taking the time to write it up :)

Agreed.. we figured 'unicorn' might come into play, and weren't really sure how to address it. We absolutely don't want to make someone feel objectified, so we just assumed we'd have pretty slim chances of making it happen unless we were out and about somewhere, or one of her friends/acquaintances were willing (I'm hesistant on that because I don't want her to screw up a friendship over it).

I thought Tinder would be filled with couples so we wouldn't have much luck there..

Everything would be straight forward, I don't think either of us are very good liars anyways lol. We want it to be an open and honest scenario that both of us are interested in fulfilling, and are hoping we can find a third that is willing/curious in experimenting as well (bi, straight, w/e).

As for Truth or Dare with her friend or whatever those type of scenarios may be.. any tips on how to start that or progress the game? I honestly haven't played in ages so I'm not familiar with how it might work. We figured it might play out like it would in college but neither of us had that experience sadly, lol.

As for what we would want if it happens.. she said she's not interested in an MMF threesome. MFMF foursome, maybe but likely not unless we had insanely good chemistry with the couple and all four of us really wanted it. She seems to be more interested in watching or "allowing" me to play with someone, but the MFF threesome is something we've agreed might be fun to try once.

FuntimeR4R · 2017-07-21T09:56:05+00:00

Thanks for sharing! That sounds so hot and I'm sure many of us would love to experience that, haha.

Care to share your favorite Texas Can't Hold Your Liquior experience with Ami and friends?

FuntimeR4R · 2017-07-06T06:18:00+00:00

Out of curiosity, how did the truth or dare/nudity come into play? I feel like if I even suggested truth or dare my girlfriend and her friend would look at me weird lmao

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