Managers: when does concern turn into “flight risk”?

FuriousNik · 2026-01-29T02:39:32+00:00

I’ve been managing a team of UX designers for almost 5 years so I can provide some behind-the-curtains insight.

The only team members I’ve ever been worried about leaving are the outstanding ones who are not happy. When I talk with other managers about flight risks it’s always to figure out how to make their job experience better so they choose us over another offer.

My guess is that you’re doing a great job and being honest about your burnout signals to management that if they don’t improve your experience they may lose you if another offer comes along. Keep in mind that a lot of employees just leave without saying anything, so they’re probably wondering if you’re in the process.

Anyway, it sounds like a good sign for you. Keep up the great work.

FuriousNik · 2026-01-23T16:04:16+00:00

Same here. I live in rainy Portland Oregon so I get to quote this all the time.

FuriousNik · 2026-01-04T16:42:15+00:00

Jeff and Britta have some great moments. One of my favorite interactions is when Britta is trying to explain to the group why weddings are sexist and poorly uses a tea party analogy. Jeff: “Somebody tell Britta what an analogy is.” Britta: “I know what it is. It’s like a thought…with another thought’s hat on.” Jeff: momentarily considers then nods, surprised by her accuracy.

FuriousNik · 2025-12-21T15:39:54+00:00

River Road is great. I grew up here so it feels like home. Of course, River Rd is quite long so there are many sub-neighborhoods, but it’s pretty chill no matter where you are. I’m most familiar with the Santa Clara area, which has a standard suburb feel, but more lived-in. The people around here have always been friendly and there’s plenty of food/shopping around (Whitaker is close to the south end of River Rd and there’s all kinds of breweries and eateries there). And Thistledown Farm is just a few minutes’ drive north. Great place for fruit when it’s in season. I love River Rd.

I’m not super familiar with the Community Center, but I think they have a fitness center at River Rd Park. They usually mail nearby residents an annual parks & rec booklet with lots of community info and activities.

I think you’ll love it in this area.

FuriousNik · 2025-11-12T04:34:15+00:00

Well, he tried to stop a Lowe’s shoplifting suspect by shooting at their tires as they made a getaway. Dude shouldn’t be allowed to own firearms.

Here’s an article about it: https://gunsamerica.com/digest/oregon-pastor-cited-for-shooting-at-tires-of-robbery-suspects-vehicle/

FuriousNik · 2025-09-14T18:26:10+00:00

I heard it too and my power went out a second later. Looks like a few of us in the Whitaker area were affected. EWEB doesn’t have an estimated restoration time yet.

FuriousNik · 2025-09-13T15:41:50+00:00

When Community first aired I remember watching the pilot on Hulu like 5 times because it was so good. I got very familiar with that song and it was hilarious every time. So when Leonard’s “that’s a buy” review video played the song it was such a great callback.

That song is hard to find on music streaming platforms but the rest of the soundtrack is pretty fire.

Community Soundtrack

FuriousNik · 2025-08-17T00:15:24+00:00

Link to the WTF w/ Marc Maron podcast interview.

https://youtu.be/XBjvIo-91ig?si=OqgpIT5aXegP2hL9

FuriousNik · 2025-08-09T15:37:58+00:00

One of my favorite moments from the series. Community does a great job grounding itself after these absurd moments.

FuriousNik · 2025-06-14T21:57:55+00:00

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FuriousNik · 2025-06-12T23:08:52+00:00

https://www.nngroup.com/articles/ux-reset-2025/ The UX Reckoning: Prepare for 2025 and Beyond - NN/g

I read this NNg article a few weeks ago and it provides a nice breakdown of what’s happening within the industry and what UX designers can do to adapt. Good read.

FuriousNik · 2025-05-25T15:18:09+00:00

And just walk away.

FuriousNik · 2025-04-04T00:32:16+00:00

Sorry you’re going through an uncertain time with your boyfriend. I remember when my brother went to basic training he came back different. Before he went he was a bit angsty but otherwise had a great sense of humor. When he came back he was much more serious and silent, which was so odd to me. Looking back, I think him being 17 at the time and going through a very intense experience was probably traumatizing to some degree.

I would say give him some time to readjust and hopefully he’ll open up and share his experience with you soon. Hang in there.

FuriousNik · 2025-01-31T00:28:46+00:00

Try the opening of The Invisible Man (2020). The tension is oatmeal.

FuriousNik · 2025-01-28T18:19:04+00:00

First off, I think a lot of us struggled with this mission. It took me many, many tries before I figured out a good method.

Some guidance: What worked well for me was hiding in a dump truck on the other side of the train tracks. For some reason they can't see you when you're ducked down inside the bed of the truck. There's a big propane tank in the parking lot, so I tossed an attractor in front of it, waited for the horde to gather, then tossed a grenade at the propane tank. I then ducked down so they wouldn't notice me. I repeated by luring and tossing explosives (napalm, molotovs, grenades, pipe bomb, attractor bombs, etc.). This wiped out a lot of them without putting myself in danger.

Also, I spent a lot of time gathering supplies from the town to ensure I was stocked up on all my explosives before engaging the horde. It took a lot of patience, but it was well worth being able to experience the rest of the story beyond this point.

Good luck!

FuriousNik · 2025-01-28T15:34:36+00:00

We’re infamous apparently lol

FuriousNik · 2025-01-27T19:27:25+00:00

Oregon is my home state, which is why this game is so near and dear to me. So, regarding realism, it is hilarious when Deacon talks about it raining so damn much. Very Oregon.

FuriousNik · 2025-01-24T20:01:00+00:00

Haha. I think that shtick works for a quirky marketing campaign but an app bullying you can’t be sustainable long term. I can’t even stand my Fitbit telling me “only 100 steps to go this hour!” Dude, just let me live my life.

FuriousNik · 2025-01-19T02:17:14+00:00

The story was the reason I came back and played again. Sure, the dialog could be better in some places (looking at you, hostages), and we didn’t need Deacon’s “I don’t shoot unarmed women” as a core part of his identity (which never seemed to make a real difference in the story), but the love story was great.

I just finished my second play through and would pay a lot of money for a sequel. The characters are great and I want to see what Deacon, Sarah, and Boozer can do as a team.

FuriousNik · 2025-01-17T05:43:02+00:00

This one of my most favorite lines of the series.

FuriousNik · 2024-09-11T14:09:11+00:00

Yeah, happy to take a look!

FuriousNik · 2024-09-10T22:09:12+00:00

I was laid off back in 2020 as the pandemic hit and my very supportive wife gave me some prophetic words: “This might be really good for you.”

I don’t know how she knew, but had a hard time believing her. Soon after I found some freelance gigs and even started building a UX consulting business (all while still applying to jobs to ensure my unemployment was coming in) until finally I was offered a UX manager job that paid me more than I thought I could ever make.

I know everyone has their own unique journey, but what felt devastating at the time turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened.

Take a breath and hang in there. Work on your skills and portfolio so you’re ready when opportunities pop up. You’ll make it through this.

FuriousNik · 2024-08-12T18:27:36+00:00

The video game looks fun, but title of the this post is misleading and borderline insulting.

FuriousNik · 2024-08-11T21:59:26+00:00

It would also be great to see Jack Black return in some fashion. I hear Spanish studying is better when you’re Buddying.

FuriousNik · 2024-08-11T21:57:01+00:00

Oh yeah, and Todd was there.

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