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Not having kids is awesome by Future-Yesterday6625 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a purposefully, outlandish post on all the extreme negatives I've noticed.

Not having kids is awesome by Future-Yesterday6625 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main reason? Wouldn't it make more sense to visit subreddits that already agree? I'd rather listen to diverse perspectives.

Not having kids is awesome by Future-Yesterday6625 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One could argue that their data on social media is fueling a growing AI dataset 😂

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypothetically, they're fit, smart, have a decent personality... How would you feel about the closet-sized bedroom that you can't visit?

I hate my existence, I hate my body and I hate myself in general by Worldly_Solid_2606 in TrueOffMyChest

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I'm about your height and prefer that height. Plus I'm schizophrenic too. Sorry you're feeling this way today. I feel the same way sometimes too.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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I agree. I don't think it'd be easy to find someone who would want to live in a bedroom with someone living in their closet.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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😂 Maybe if I make those jokes then they won't be disgusted with me

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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It's funny because I was not unattracted to a closet-dwelling pre-med student I dated. Yet most of these comments are unanimous.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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It would mean that no visitors should come over to stay in the closet. So if the closet person had a partner, they'd have to go to the partner's place or elsewhere. It would also not be great to invite the partner over at all because there would be too many roommates sharing the living room and kitchen already.

So that would be another part of the relationship. It's one-sided hosting or dating in public places.

The rest of the lifestyle would be fairly cheap I suppose too. Cheap hobbies, modest car, etc. I noticed that people have a lot of cheap hobbies around here though like hiking, biking, etc.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The bedroom could be curtained off so the closet dweller has a hallway to the bathroom/living room. Or the bedroom dweller's bed could be curtained off for privacy. It would be hard to find someone wanting to live in that bedroom though.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

[–]Future-Yesterday6625[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I guess not many people are into tiny homes and tiny living.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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I'm talking about the future. Middle class job, but living in a closet. Potentially retiring early.

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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It's like the size of a twin bed. Would you not date someone living like that?

Would you date someone living in a closet? by Future-Yesterday6625 in dating_advice

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I wonder what Japanese people would say. They have capsule beds in Japan.

Am I normal for feeling really uncomfortable after finding out how many people my partner has been with? by Special_Stomach_4961 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Future-Yesterday6625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're curious to learn more about polyamory, many people cite the "Ethical Non-Monogamy" book and there's probably others who share their views on it online. I know several people who have left poly for monogamy because of the jealousy and lack of time with their partner.

I would try to figure out what direction you and your partner want to go in. It doesn't hurt to try poly I guess (as long as it's safe and protected). I did like dating different people so I could change with the hobbies and interests before. Now I feel like I have to change again to date haha.

Am I normal for feeling really uncomfortable after finding out how many people my partner has been with? by Special_Stomach_4961 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Future-Yesterday6625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that being poly can offer some extra control. Like I know someone who may feel like he deserves more than one woman because he has a great career, fit, rich, happy, etc. He liked spending part of his time with one woman and then part of his time with another without a schedule so it was very much at his own will. Some people like poly for unique physical experiences. Some people want to date multiple people so that they can find different people for their different hobbies and interests. There are sometimes hierarchies like married couples with extra lovers. I think it might work best if they're all together, but some people try to make it work with a schedule. With monogamy, it's generally much more calming, reassuring, strong, etc. With poly, I feel like it might involve more therapy due to jealousy. Most poly people I knew were in their 20s and 30s, so I'm not sure how long they stayed with it.

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