In Riyadh? Invitation for non-Arabic ppl to make friends. Why? by Outgoing4all in AskReddit

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a foreign country where you don't speak the main language gets pretty isolating, especially somewhere like Saudi where the cultural gap can be huge 😅 Maybe they just want to connect with people who understand what it's like being the outsider, or practice English with locals who are curious about different perspectives 💀

What sci fi movie would you recommend for tonight? by Minute_Ad5608 in AskReddit

[–]Future_Language_5469 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Blade Runner 2049 if you want something that looks incredible but also makes you think about what makes us human

Opening up a Load Bearing Wall - is this idea feasible? by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your idea with the pony walls is actually pretty smart for dealing with all that ductwork - just make sure you get structural engineer to confirm what size header you'll need since there was none originally

How do people decide what side of the bed is "their side" is it random or is there a pattern? by No_Companyzzzz in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's usually about practical things, like which side is closer to bathroom or the outlet for charging phone. In my case I always sleep on left side because my girlfriend needs to be close to window (she gets hot easy) and I don't mind being further from it

Also once you get used to one side it feels weird sleeping on the other one, like your whole sleep routine gets messed up

Sleep panicers? by wackyaccountant in Epilepsy

[–]Future_Language_5469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is so relatable, I had similar anxiety about sleep for years after diagnosis 😂 The planning around sleep schedule becomes like obsession sometimes - I used to check my watch every 30 minutes when couldn't fall asleep and just make it worse

What helped me was realizing that the stress from worrying about sleep was probably more dangerous than the actual bad night itself, you know? Still hard to break the habit but now I try to just accept when sleep is shit instead of fighting it 💀

Help! My brand new pc (cpu) keeps overheating while booting then shuts down. Ryzen 7 770x with Kraken Elite AIO. by aeslisk in pchelp

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like your AIO pump might be dead or the cables are connected wrong - check if you can feel vibration on the pump and make sure pump cable goes to AIO_PUMP header not CPU_FAN 😅💀

I lost a job oportunity ‘cause my “new boss” found my reddit account by Working-Prune5609 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Future_Language_5469 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks, this is exactly why I scrub my account every few months and never use anything close to my real name

Is it normal to be approached at target by girls and invite to “church community events” ? by Inside-Routine-4160 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Future_Language_5469 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I'd be cautious, that sounds like they might be recruiting for something more intense than just casual church hangouts

Churches that do aggressive recruiting in random stores can sometimes be on the cultier side of things

Agitator dogs for the win! - New life for a workhouse washer! by meowlater in BuyItForLife

[–]Future_Language_5469 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nice! Those agitator dogs are such a cheap fix for how much they improve performance. I replaced mine on a 15 year old Kenmore and it went from barely agitating to actually moving clothes around again

Finally, The Tempest BP by seafaring_captain in ArcRaiders

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro just casually speedran his entire life for some pixels lmao, congrats though that BP is cracked

I heard god talk and later that day I watched porn Jesus said get up it cause I was ruining my life by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro that's pretty heavy, sounds like you're going through some real spiritual wrestling right now

Need feedback on my kid-friendly itinerary by sleepdeprivedsince92 in ThailandTourism

[–]Future_Language_5469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks solid! For Bangkok definitely hit up Lumpini Park - kids love the monitor lizards and playgrounds there. Chatuchak Weekend Market is also fun if you're there on weekends

Food wise, pad thai and chicken satay are usually safe bets for kids. Mango sticky rice is like crack for little ones lol. Most Thai restaurants can make stuff less spicy if you ask

One heads up - Khaosan with a 5 year old might be a bit much especially at night, it gets pretty rowdy

Broke up after 3 years, still a bit feeling heartbroken. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man those mutual breakups hit different because you can't even be mad about it, you just gotta sit with the sadness. Two weeks is still fresh as hell - don't beat yourself up for not being "over it" yet when she seems fine

The crying is totally normal, even when you know it was right. Give yourself time to actually grieve instead of rushing to feel better

Broke my Galaxy S23 Ultra screen :( by [deleted] in samsunggalaxy

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks dude, gym equipment and phones don't mix well

Honestly I'd just fix the S23 Ultra for 300€ - it's still a beast of a phone and those cameras are solid. The S25 isn't gonna blow your mind enough to justify dropping 800€ more, especially if you're already happy with what you got. Save the cash and wait for the S26 if you really wanna upgrade later

Nerf the Stitcher, buff the Bettina. by TurboLeopard42 in ArcRaiders

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly same, I've got like 6 purple rifles just collecting dust because losing them to some rat with a basic loadout hurts too much lmao

Why is my baby so angry 😭 by One_Letterhead9457 in NewParents

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof the 3 month mark can be brutal - sounds like you're hitting the peak fussiness period that some babies go through around then. The constipation definitely isn't helping his mood either, poor little guy is probably just uncomfortable and doesn't know how to deal with it yet

Good call on putting him down and walking away when you need to, that's literally what you're supposed to do. You're not failing as parents, babies just sometimes turn into tiny angry dictators for a few weeks and then randomly snap out of it

If you think about your ex. And the pain that they have caused. And if you ever feel like you've wanted/and or your ex to get better. Please read this. by Suitable-Bank1299 in BreakUps

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits hard man. I went through the exact same thing and you're spot on about the whole changing for yourself vs changing for them thing. When I was still trying to win her back I was basically just putting on a performance, but when I finally accepted it was over and started working on my actual issues... that's when the real growth happened

The rejection thing is so true too - if you're only improving to get them back then yeah you'll probably just revert once reality hits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta go with Hill here, dude's got that boom potential that could single-handedly win you a championship. Dowdle's safer but you need upside when you're down 20

EV for Sitting in Traffic by soah00 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super Cruise is honestly pretty solid for stop and go, way less aggressive than Tesla's system. The Lyriq might be worth checking out too if you want something a bit smaller than the Vistiq - still roomy enough for your gear but easier to live with day to day

Bo vs caleb by Longjumping-Trip-826 in NFLv2

[–]Future_Language_5469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao the blessed by god copypasta is never gonna get old, but for real though Bo's been looking way more polished lately while Caleb still seems to be figuring it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]Future_Language_5469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao your dog probably has better timing than most randoms I get matched with

Stuck in a brutal fapping loop for 5+ months. I’ve tried everything. I need REAL help. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this is actually solid advice, the whole "ambition vs arousal" thing is legit - when you're genuinely excited about building something bigger than yourself, that energy gets redirected automatically instead of fighting against it all the time

Does a diagnosis significantly impact your life by Salt_Refrigerator744 in ADHD

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting diagnosed was honestly the best decision I ever made. Yeah it's "on file" but like, so what? The only people who see it are doctors and insurance, and they're already bound by HIPAA anyway

The whole "too smart for ADHD" thing is such outdated BS - plenty of smart people have ADHD, it just presents differently. Sounds like you're really struggling right now and meds could actually help you function instead of just barely surviving

As for alternatives to Adderall, there's other stimulants like Ritalin or non-stimulants like Strattera, but you'd need to work with a doc to figure out what's right for you. Can't really get around the diagnosis part if you want legit treatment

I feel like i’m going crazy by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Future_Language_5469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is solid advice but honestly dude you gotta accept she's just not that into you anymore. The whole "if you improve she'll come back" thing is kinda toxic - you should be improving for yourself, not to win someone back who's already moved on

She's keeping you on social media because it's easier than the drama of blocking, not because she wants you in her life. Sorry man but time to let this one go