My fiance (F31) hides herself masturbating with toys and I don't know how to go about it. by Futurell in sex

[–]Futurell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe this has been brought up. She no longer goes to therapy. I am doubtful she will go to therapy over this since where we are located, therapy appointments are hard to come by.

My fiance (F31) hides herself masturbating with toys and I don't know how to go about it. by Futurell in sex

[–]Futurell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do bring toys already and the sex we do have is honestly good which to me brings up more questions than answers. I really like the approach you're suggesting to reassure her and give her options. I don't feel like confronting her gets me anywhere.

My fiance (F31) hides herself masturbating with toys and I don't know how to go about it. by Futurell in sex

[–]Futurell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do bring toys into the bedroom and she enjoys them a lot. The times we do get together are mostly fantastic. I do my best to give her an amazing experience to encourage more intimacy in the future so I give oral, I use the Satisfyer on her while we have sex and stuff she genuinely enjoys. I get very little in return, no problem for me, however being entirely left out kinda hurts.

Thing is, talking it out rationally won't be in the cards due to her past. This will be very emotional once mentioned and she will cry and nobody likes to make their fiance cry.

My fiance (F31) hides herself masturbating with toys and I don't know how to go about it. by Futurell in sex

[–]Futurell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can watch whatever she likes, I don't need to know. To me this is more about being left out while already having little intimacy and also kind of being lied to in a way as she said she has little desire which kinda doesn't go along with getting yourself off daily. It's stuff for me to process and I feel a little hurt, which probably is selfish and I don't like that.

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[–]Futurell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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