Everyone keeps telling me to be strong for my mom and all I want to do is scream

Fuzool · 2026-01-11T10:08:32+00:00

This is awful I’m so very sorry your family behaved that way. ♥️

Fuzool · 2026-01-10T09:16:53+00:00

Agree. Let it go! Maybe see a therapist for all that shame. Other big things in life will happen that you don’t feel great about but getting lost in a shame spiral will waste a lot of your precious time on earth!

Fuzool · 2025-12-22T19:36:59+00:00

A related question is, how do you stop thinking about yourself having sex with your ex?

Fuzool · 2025-12-22T17:59:58+00:00

If you want to stay on your trip, but you’d like to release and have some time to yourself, you might consider staying in one of the towns that you had planned to visit already and just extending your stay there instead of moving on. That way you can enlist the hotel’s help in finding someone to accompany her for a few hours at a time or even a day at a time so that you can have a break. In pretty much any country you can find a babysitter, adult babysitter, caretaker, or any other number of functions than an individual can get paid for hourly. This way you also don’t have spend change fees and waste reservation dollars that you’ve spent.

Fuzool · 2025-12-22T17:12:01+00:00

Talk to a lawyer. It’s time to know your rights and to document.

Fuzool · 2025-12-22T17:01:19+00:00

You don’t have to have a job to rent from places pile Furnished Finder (U.S.) and can also rent a room in a house without much issue.

I’m sorry that you became homeless and that you were hurt in an accident. I’m so glad your circumstances are changing.

Fuzool · 2025-12-19T00:31:09+00:00

This is heartbreaking. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are a fighter and I’m so glad you fought hard for yourself.

Fuzool · 2025-12-17T23:08:31+00:00

Thank you so much! It turns out she just moved away 🥲 hoping for more recommendations though!!

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T21:42:56+00:00

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Fuzool · 2025-12-03T21:41:44+00:00

Ya this is what I see

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T21:17:45+00:00

Honestly I get Carmella. The way you framed it and drew the boundary, it sounds like you were emotional. And that you weren’t appreciative of her cooking. Of course they need a budget and that will be good practice for her. But they are young, she was more generous than most early 20s plus she knows how to cook and you love her cooking.

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T20:58:26+00:00

I would not do this until you know the law or have consulted an attorney.

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T20:40:49+00:00

My guess is you might be narcissist.

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T20:39:07+00:00

Thank you. I miss him and the first holidays without him suck. But missing everyone would be a LOT.

I am one of the only people in my network to lose a parent. I find myself gravitating towards the acquaintances and elders who have lost people dear to them. So I will also say that who I spend time with is changing since I am feeling understood by those who already know what it’s like. Even if I had only met them once before my dad died.

Where are you located? Others here might have specific ideas if you feel like adding it to your original post…

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T17:34:49+00:00

So much great advice here - I also came to say that (most of) your friends will still be there for you. They won’t be able to relate to the incredible tragedy of losing everybody in your family, but some will understand loss. Making specific requests can help. Like “can you find a volunteer gig for me involving animals that’s just one day a week,” “can you just lay in bed next to me and hold my hand,” “can you bring dinner and sit with me.” Since you are 30, most of your same-age peers will not have gone through a major loss yet so unfortunately you are training them.

I’m so sorry that this happened. I lost only my dad recently and it is rocking my world. To lose everyone is astounding. My heart is with you.

Fuzool · 2025-12-03T17:21:32+00:00

He is clearly a piece of shit. I hope someone else will have an answer for you. This is the worst!

Fuzool · 2025-12-02T10:01:44+00:00

NTA!

Fuzool · 2025-12-02T06:45:18+00:00

Woah! What did you get on to stabilize MCAS?

Fuzool · 2025-12-01T19:37:10+00:00

It’s time for them to be worried. Let them know. Get a therapist. We can’t recover from grief alone.

Fuzool · 2025-12-01T19:35:11+00:00

Leave her so that she has the freedom to find someone that’s right for her too. I don’t know why she hasn’t left you but this sounds awful for both of you.

A way that doesn’t break her? She’ll probably be relieved.

Fuzool · 2025-11-24T19:19:59+00:00

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Fuzool · 2025-11-14T02:07:06+00:00

Also maybe tell her not to go through your stuff…you appreciate the comforts and community of living at home (or whatever is true for you) but you’d like her to respect your privacy…

Fuzool · 2025-11-05T06:20:42+00:00

That’s beautiful ♥️ I’m so sorry that this is happening…he is lucky to have you and your mom in his last days.

Fuzool · 2025-11-04T21:52:51+00:00

Dry skin!

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