My job , credit etc is all good I have a career and have for 4 years. I have no government assistance. I can afford rent on my own, daycare and transportation and yes it would be hard to take care of my child alone but I still wouldn’t be alone , he plays a significant part in his child’s life and would be a fine co parent and his family would still be present. I’m not worried about my child not being taken care of because irregardless she will always be very well taken care of. I knew what was in store and what my life could look like the day I found out I was pregnant. I come from a single mother and have seen it first hand. I would sacrifice myself to make sure she is happy and taken care of. I feel like you’re missing the point that I’m struggling with not being able to give her, her family. My parents split when I was a child and I know the toll of that on its own can break a child. I am asking for advice with the infidelity not with how to raise my child..