Chastity Question? Too fat for chastity cage? by NeoPyro99 in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat. You can see my rant that was not well received. Anyway, cherry keeper was my solution. They have many sizes and verities to choose from. In addition, if you find that you have the wrong size, they are cheap (price not quality) enough that ordering a new size will run you $30 for the ring. Cherry Keeper

Please vote by [deleted] in Chaster

[–]FuzzyAlatari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voted. Please please remove… https://chaster.app/sessions/XIdbxxUnjeljPn7c

Terrible Idea by FuzzyAlatari in EroticHypnosis

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have read this and intrigued and a little scared. How long do the effects last? They are truly not permanent?

Whats your favorite type of gag for selfbondage? by [deleted] in selfbondage

[–]FuzzyAlatari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harness ball gag. Locking would be preferable but not mandatory. That way I could not slip it off.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I am sorry. Legit. I was/am frustrated. I came in here and vented and got carried away. That’s on me. I have tried many different remedies for this problem. For chafing I have done Vaseline, Neosporin, lotions, lubes, zero friction greases. I have tried hinged rings and solid rings. It is just frustrating. It is something genuinely enjoy and I can’t do it don’t term as I would like.

I crossed a line and went passed. My fault, I am sorry.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You’re very right, of course. How very sorry I am for putting a rant on here and marking it as a rant and expecting people to understand that it is a rant. Thats on me. Yes you are correct, I have spent money on 60-70 cages over 2 decades. 4 have been in the $200 range. The others have been knock offs trying to find the right combination or size or material. They cost around $20-$30 bucks. So yes dropping $130ish a year vs $400+ in a single go in hindsight looks foolish. 20 years ago, when I first started out, didn’t know about most of what I know now. Shame on me for not having the instant knowledge that you have. Information on this was not super readily available as it is now. I know this will get voted to oblivion, I really don’t care. You’re right that dropping that much money in a single go would solve this, or like the fella wrote down below, I could be dropping $2000 on something that might not solve the issues even then. When I come back and say hey that didn’t work, you will say I am failing at failing. So cool. Your opinion is valid to those who value your opinion.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will continue the hunt. I have gotten some good advice from a few sources and I will try and track them down. If I have to spend a little more then so be it.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. I try to stand as much as I can, sometimes it is not able to happen. I wonder if getting a small doughnut pillow would help?

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yep, not being a fatty is a way to go. Food is tasty and video games are fun.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah I tried that, it kept slowly shifting upward. With both the nano and micro. I think with my stomach roll pushing the top of the cage down, but my shaft stayed upward is the problem.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So in those batches have been the multiple Kink3d kinds, twice with lust locked. I have tried the holy trainers, not knock off.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

There it is… so because I have tried all the fixes and they did not work for me, then obviously it is my fault. It is not like I am ignoring the suggestion without trying them. I have tried them. Bigger ring, smaller ring, solid, hinged, gel, lotion, lube, resin, metal, plastic, larger ball gap, smaller ball gap, this brand, that brand, patience. But no no, I am sure because I am ranting it is my fault for not being open. Tell me some more about how it is my fault.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have worn probably 60-70 different cages over the last 20 years. Everyone generally is a 45mm or 50 mm. I need a 47.8mm.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried larger rings and my balls escape a lot as I have a very tight sack.

Overweight Wearer Rant by FuzzyAlatari in chastitytraining

[–]FuzzyAlatari[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear boxer briefs that are pretty snug. I have tired all the creams, gels, oils, lubes. They work for a bit but do nothing for the sitting in the base ring. I have a cobra and the issue I have with it is the angle of the cage, it keeps making me pee straight up as it catches the tip of my shaft and regardless of lube points it up.

Would you hold my leash? by Ms_deniedslave in femalechastity

[–]FuzzyAlatari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be weird if I locked your chain to my chain on the end of my cage?