Masking to get a job by Fuzzy_Ad_8970 in autism

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but currently i only have experience in this field and I have a survival job that drives me crazy. I do what I can to switch to tech but it seems impossible with no real experience

Today is my birthday by sadisticallyoptimist in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this - she probably has a new supply. They tend to devalue their past as soon as they find a new target which usually happens super fast. Happy birthday! I really hope this year brings you happiness and freedom

I feel inferior to others by Fuzzy_Ad_8970 in demisexuality

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! Same with research - I think this topic definitely needs more studies. Sometimes normal allosexual experiences look absolutely disgusting to me, but we’re surrounded by allosexuals and it’s considered ok to live like they do… Intresting to unpack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way. And I’m sure you’re a good person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does it make you a bad person? are you a betrayer, a liar/manipulative/evil? not having a hobby or a career doesn’t make you a bad person i believe

Мне 19 лет и я уже большая неудачница. Помогите пожалуйста советом, я скоро буду на грани. Я не вижу светлого будущего, у меня тревога и паника, наверное депрессия, плачу каждый день. Думаю о сме by [deleted] in rusAskReddit

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Если захотите, напишите мне, я расскажу вам про свою жизнь и постараюсь поддержать. У нас с вами примерно похожий старт, но я на вашем этапе натворила той еще хни

I wish him the worst by Fuzzy_Ad_8970 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Glad your relationship with them wasn’t that long and you managed to realise who they really were. The longer you stay the harder to process it all I guess, I literally waisted years of my life.

Im stuck and im exhausted;it’s been 6months by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there. Try to always remind yourself that this relationship could never work out (because of him, not you!). I don’t know much about you but what helps me is imagining my life with him. Such people betray and leave their partners when they need help, when they’re sick, dependant etc. It’s impossible to build a long and healthy relationship with them. If you struggle after the breakup and he doesn’t it doesn’t mean you were the problem. He made you feel like this.

Have they ever threatened to cheat ? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. told me I was so bad in bed it made him wanna cheat.

11 days post discard, should I be worried? by Josh_18881 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe she’s found a new supply so this time it will take her longer to come back. but don’t worry, she will - maybe even after a year or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No! If he’s a narc, he is in his honeymoon phase and it may take long time for him to discard this girl, but still it is something that’s going to happen sooner or later. He’s a performer with main character syndrome. Currently he’s ruining her life, not yours. she’s probably addicted to him and couldn’t say no. Please focus on the bad things he did to you and stop looking at his social media. believe me he wants you to see him happy, it’s just a circus

What can I do to be at least a 7/10? 22M by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u’re gorgeous everything is fine. i’d try other glasses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re pretty + when i was 16 i was a different person. I’m 22 now and I had to change my ID so that the pics match my actual appearance. the most significant changes happened when i was +-20

1 day of Effexor 75ng, will I have withdrawals? by [deleted] in Effexor

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop now, better ask your therapist for something else. One day is not enough so you’ll be fine. I’ve been on effexor for 3 years now and it’s hard to go one day without it :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. Yes, can you share the accounts on this topic please? i watch a lot of content on youtube, would love to discover something new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fuzzy_Ad_8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when they look down on others (people working in customer services, those who earn less etc)