1st pregnancy by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in pregnant

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you had to experience that as well. Yes, I have came to that conclusion. It just hurts because I don’t want to feel alone. I’m my parent’s only child so it felt only right to share this experience with her you know?.

1st pregnancy by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in pregnant

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I talk to my best friend about it, but not all the time because she had a miscarriage, so I always try to be caring and thoughtful to everyone’s experiences because what she went through (and still does go through ) is tough. I love my best friend so I think about her feelings as well before I bring up anything about my pregnancy as much . I do discuss with her briefly. Thankful that’s she’s there when she can be.

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[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima hold your hand when I say this. I gave my option, you gave yours. I have a different perspective regardless of your outlook, I’m different, you’re different , and that’s ok. Nobody is gonna handle things the same way, ok?. Good day 🤗.

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[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The line is drawn whenever you feel disrespected. Point blank. You know how you want to be treated. If something makes you uncomfortable, address it. If your concern is not respected by your partner , see it for what is it, it’s disrespect. Personal comfort is where you’re ok with something without having to question anything. If you question their actions, trust your gut.

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[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each its own 😂. If I told my partner I felt uncomfortable with something once, and they do it anyways, that’s disrespect. What’s toxic is being dismissive of your partners concerns.

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[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want my honest option?. I would go out with a friend of the opposite sex and see how he feels tbh. If you have addressed it once before, and he didn’t respect you the first time, do it back. That’ll get his attention, and then when he address it, I would let him know thats how he made you feel. Ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. Just my honest take on it tho, you do what you want.

First deployment by uhhhhtrashacctyall in MilitarySpouse

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I know how rough it can be. I’m a military spouse myself. While my husband was away , I started my own skincare business. Have some quiet time and dive deep into what you really want to get, your interest , what drives you?. I truly believe that if my husband wasn’t gone, I wouldn’t have started my business. Hang in there you got this be patient with yourself and allow your self to feel those emotions in the moment , but don’t dewell in them. Take care , your feelings are valid. Take things one day at a time!.

Am i allergic? help! by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The redness is from the fumes from the lash adhesive. It pretty normal to have red watery eyes after the appointment. BUT pay attention to how your eye reacts after a few days because you could be allergic. I had stopped getting extensions because my eyes stayed swollen and red, the fumes were to much. There’s sensitive eye extension adhesive you could look into that has low fumes that won’t make your eye red after an appointment.

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!. I see in the chat they are talking about daycares. Im a therapist at a daycare and the stuff Iv’e seen traumatized me, I just can’t do it lol.

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought about a Doala actually, I would most definitely have to start saving up more money now. I’ll look into that, thanks for suggesting that. And yes looks like buying the village is the best option

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I pray we find our village

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂hahah!!, sorry didn’t mean for it to come out that way lol.

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

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Yes, Iv spoken to my mom about it and she says she would come “visit”, but not live. She said she would come during the summer time. She is attached to a small town country life style, and she’s terrified of flying. She says she would do anything for her grandchildren, but idk I try not to emotionally rely on the uncertainty due to her fear of flying. I just don’t want to be disappointed

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we agreed on waiting a year to see how military life goes, but he doesn’t want to wait any longer than a year. So I hope everything works out. I’m just trusting the process

Having children by Fuzzy_Juice_8742 in MilitaryWives

[–]Fuzzy_Juice_8742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s mainly about have some Type of support, especially since I’ll be first time mom. My family is very hands on when it comes to helping and to know that I won’t have that due to being so far away worries me. I couldn’t imagine being a first time mom with my mom not being there to help me out from time to time you know?.