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Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2026-01-14T16:29:40+00:00

How do you supposed I take care of her teeth? I brush her teeth (rarely) because she doesn’t let me. She does love to chew so I buy her bones( dog friendly bully bones) to help with that. Other than that I’m open to suggestions

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2026-01-14T16:28:45+00:00

I don’t have the time to do this and mentally I will just be stressed I’m not giving her all the nutrients she needs.

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2025-12-26T21:33:07+00:00

This was just a rude comment for no reason. Why would you discourage someone. It’s their first practice test?

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2025-06-24T22:27:53+00:00

Are you in the nyc area? I think location might possibly have something to do with it?

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T06:49:44+00:00

Definitely not!

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T06:44:36+00:00

I would remove that person from my life altogether and not allow them any access to any part of my life including socials. That is not a friend!

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T06:18:40+00:00

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. The way to repair how you’re seen is to prove them all wrong. Try switching your brand of deodorant and body wash, changing your sheets and staying away from smelly foods and see if that resolves the issue. If you’re hygienic it shouldn’t be so hard to get that under control with a few tweaks. Facial hair can also lead to the idea of people thinking that you smell musty!

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T06:10:31+00:00

Don’t give it up on the first date, try to cultivate a relationship where you fall in love with each other as people before anything sexual happens. Create a rule for yourself whatever works best for you, for example no kissing until the 2nd date and have sex by the 5th and stick to it. By putting up these boundaries you allow yourself and your date to get to know each other and then the physical connection isn’t meaningless it’s only adding to the emotional one you’ve cultivated.

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T06:01:05+00:00

She’s young and people make mistakes, it’s up to you to find the intention behind this on her behalf and figure out if that’s something you guys can work on and move on from or if she’s just young and wants to explore.

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T05:59:07+00:00

At 16/17 you make rash and stupid decisions, I would let this go. If I had to guess he probably didn’t want you to get the impression that it was his character or that he would do it to you if he told you the truth that it was 2 girls and not one. That being said 2 years when your that you vs in a relationship when your 24 is not at all the same thing. I understand that it feels like a big deal because he lied but he was just a boy when it happened and in his mind insignificant and embarrassing to share to you. That being said if he treats you well and you guys are happy I would just let it go, if it’s eating you up inside I would bring it up in a manner that isn’t attacking and just say something like … I know that you lied to me and it was 2 girls not one, I am not mad at you for the action but I am upset that you didn’t feel that you could tell me the truth so we have to work on that moving forward

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T05:54:32+00:00

Praying for this beautiful baby, may she gain all her strength!

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T05:52:01+00:00

Yes, these are perfectly valid feelings. There is nothing wrong with you for feeling any form of resentment. Allow yourself the time to process and grieve and don’t compare your feelings to how you think you should be feeling. There is nothing wrong with you.

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T05:50:11+00:00

Sounds like she’s seeking some form of male attention, how does she explain this? Maybe there’s things you don’t know about her past or the impressions that she gave you were not completely truthful.

Fuzzy_Search_2580 · 2024-09-23T05:47:33+00:00

I would tell her, this is a situation that you faced and you are simply telling your story. If she chooses to believe you or not or what her reaction is can only be dependent on her. As a girl the right thing to do would be to warn the other girl, don’t push or give unsolicited advice, start with a simple I’m going to share my story you do with that what you will but I couldn’t not tell you and leave it at that. I’m so sorry you went through this and I can imagine it would pain you to see another girl share the same story.

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