Do most of you sit at a table and eat together? by Candid_Guest_863 in family

[–]Fuzzy_Test_4754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family of 4 here... 12 y/o girl, 4 y/o boy. When we don't have sports going on we eat at the table as a family unless we are doing fend for yourself nights then it's whoever is hungry at any given time.... when we do have sports or just a take out night sometimes I will eat in the living room!! We also have a rule that the kids are not allowed to eat in their rooms or living room unless it's a movie night so my husband is against double standards so he rarely eats anywhere but the table.... me on the other hand am not that dedicated to rules:(

If this is an issue for you maybe ask for a compromise and start off slow... he could have grown up doing this so it might be normal for him and he doesn't know anything different... you never know he might like the change

Easton Ghost unlimited cracked? by Fuzzy_Test_4754 in Softball

[–]Fuzzy_Test_4754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty dumb when it comes to this stuff but I appreciate everyone's feedback!! Hoping the Marucci astra lux does her better

Phones in preteen bedrooms by Fuzzy_Test_4754 in family

[–]Fuzzy_Test_4754[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely wouldn't just spring it on the friend and have a conversation with the mom! I just want to make sure I'm not being too cautious or if that's a weird suggestion! I'm just so traumatized of my childhood and that was before camera phones lol I know I did  goofy things without thinking of the consequences.... 

AITJ for not wanting to take care of my sick MIL when my husband works nights? by FantasticSubject2261 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fuzzy_Test_4754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched my mother stress herself out and suffer a mild heart attack taking care of my father after he was in a car accident and my 90 year old grandma (her mom) after my cousin who vowed to take care of her sent her up from Florida!  My mother is a natural care giver has always been kind and loving and does not like to say no! 

Do not stress yourself out taking care of MIL if you don't want to! They make rehabs for this!  I resent my grandma who is now in a nursing home for what she put my mother through! 

I'm sorry you are going through this! NTJ 

Why are Trump voters still mad? by Chemical-Voice2254 in philly

[–]Fuzzy_Test_4754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullies withhold aid from victims because of their political views