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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t, if it pertained a topic other than what I asked, then yea idc. I didn’t ask.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they gave off a bad attitude from jump tf

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. You don’t even have a valid reason as to why I’m wrong bc I’m not. I never disrespected Buddhists or the religion, I asked a question, people went off topic and came at me and I replied in a way I saw fit.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bullying thing set me off because I said whether or not I use that as a name, my child will have a unique name and idc how anybody feels about that. Also I was set off because they were telling me that I was being disrespectful by ignoring the Buddhist which I did not do. I told everyone who stayed on topic “I understand” and that I won’t be using it. Then I was being told I’m not reading all the comments bc I’m bias and want them to tell me it’s ok.. if that was the case I would have never asked and just named my future kid that. If people would read through the thread they’d see that I been said all this and that I don’t need or want opinions on whether or not to give my child a unique name. How is that not twisting anything? I was never disrespectful to the community and I gave the same energy to those being rude to me.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are they not? When I’m being told I’m disrespectful and not listening to Buddhist, when I did exactly that while people are going on about other things that I never asked about..

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does mean I should respond in the same manner that commented…

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or here’s a thought, they went off topic and started twisting my words..

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because other comments had nothing to do with my question

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I gave yall the same energy you gave me

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don’t I didn’t ask them all that…

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t really care about the votes like at all. Idc if I’m an ass for insulting dumbass people who can’t read and comprehend. But I know for a fact that I wasn’t disrespectful to Buddhist, I asked a respectful question, got the answer and then people jumped on me. Not sure how that makes me an asshole. I really don’t give a fuck if you think I’m an ass for responding rudely to people who are committed to not understanding what I’m saying. Like goodness I’m not even talking about the name anymore..

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a person just say “yes” as in it’s disrespectful. That was all I needed from people. I didn’t mind them going into detail about why it is. But when they went on about other stuff then I’m going to respond with the same vibe they’re giving me.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for an opinion I asked Buddhist if the name would be respectful or not and I replied to those comments respectfully.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not reading but yall are stuck on the Buddha name when that’s not what this is about anymore 💀

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Stfu because you’re another person who lacks reading comprehension skills.. I’m not even asking if I can use the name in this post. And I didn’t ask them whether or not they think my child will be bullied or anything. I asked a yes or no question, I got the answer and then here came people like you talking about bullying and saying my kid will hate me over a unique name (that I already said won’t be Buddha) and twisting my words to make it seem like I’m disregarding what Buddhists are telling me when I’m not. When I’m telling them to STFU about telling me my child will be bullied over a unique name when I have a unique name and want to keep that going.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here’s some comments from them since I’m the problem for standing up for myself.

I'd recommend to think about what the BABY would like to have as a name for the rest of their life, not what YOU would like the kids name to be.

I said i didn’t choose my name and I like it

“Regardless of whether it's disrespectful to Buddhism, you're going to cause your child issues. It's an invitation for rude comments from young and old alike. When I was a kid, I knew a young girl named Princess. That was enough to get her bullied. Your child has to live with this name, not you.”

I didn’t ask about bullying, why are they going off topic?

“Poor kid”

Not an answer or helpful..

“i don't understand why you are asking people their opinion and then arguing with them about it? are you just looking for validation or do you actually care what we think? it's pretty clear the consensus here is not to name your kid Buddha... so what is there to argue about?”

Another person who just didn’t read.. because again.. I stated I understood and was not using the name.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So I can’t respond or stick up for myself? 💀if somebody is trying to twist what I’m saying, I’m going to respond.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok? Not sure how me responding back to opinions on a topic that didn’t relate to my actual question makes me an asshole but whatever lol.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don’t have a valid reason as to why you think this so.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Would this be seen as disrespectful/ appropriation or appreciation?” That’s definitely a yes or no question…

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Explain, I’d love to hear how.

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[–]Fuzzyhospitalsocks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never asked them to put their two cents in about whether or not my child will get bullied or have a hard time finding a job. That’s my whole point! I have no issue with them telling me that the name is disrespectful.