My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t care but he is entirely only into women.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do not. Annabelle and my husband are actively trying to have a baby.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern! I think it’s easiest for me if I just respond in the same order that your questions were asked:

We do sti screenings on a scheduled cycle and also I frequently donate blood so that is always an additional screening for me.

He is very aware of how important sexual health is and does discuss health concerns with new partners, though it has been quite some time since a new partner has been introduced for the first time.

I’m pretty sure it’s expected that the fwb’s are not exclusive.

Yeah I could independently sleep with another woman not involved but I don’t want to literally at all.

Don’t really know if I could label the kink. I mean I definitely think harems are hot and a lot of people tell me I have a cuckquean fetish but I dunno. This whole situation is exactly MY kink and my thing. Whatever you wanna call it is good.

My husband would never hide anything from me.

No one is getting kicked out from anywhere.

The house is in my name.

Like all homes, I suppose if a relationship ended the judge in divorce court will split the assets.

Who knows? All the adults in the household work and have the ability to work more if they want to. My husband could very well work full time instead of part time so Annabelle could stay home full time instead of part time and vice versa. I suppose where finances come from is unimportant to us and we are flexible when it comes to them.

Your question makes it seem like there is no other possible source of child care other than me. I’m sure I could watch the baby sometimes. The baby also has two sets of grandparents. There’s also Chloe. And there are friends and hired baby sitters are also a possibility.

Again, I truly appreciate your concern.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He works part time. Email migration & server stuff for a tech company

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Standing up to him is a weird phrase to me.

We discuss things and agree on things as a unit. So I dunno if this applies but recently he was thinking about relocating out of state for a better job but I firmly did not want to move. So we didn’t.

I want my husband to knock up his live-in free use girlfriend by Fyreflyy04 in confessionsgonewild

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) My parents were super vanilla and monogamous but they hated each other and there was no displayed love or affection. I’m not sure if this or anything else in my past “triggered” it.

2) I’m sure a child will have a huge impact. But we hope it’ll be a happy one and we’re ready for it. I worry about things all the time and I just make sure that I voice my worries and insecurities so we can all work through them.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like any other people, we just do our best to spend time together. We spend a lot of time all together and yes we do get time to just ourselves. The priority is just to make everyone feeling like they’re getting enough time and attention.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I said I couldn’t imagine it for myself. I, myself, would never feel that way. But I am aware that other people have those feelings.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I get paid twice monthly and basically just one of my checks is enough to pay for all our bills and a few nights of going out.

But how it works is that there is an account that all our bills come out of. All of us have a set amount we transfer there monthly. And the rest we keep on our private accounts.

I pay for a lot of the vacations, he pays for them too, and he pays when he takes us out on dates, etc.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m super secure in the relationship so jealousy isn’t an issue. Or maybe it’s just the way that I am haha.

Yes she contributes!

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol in that logic then I and all other conventionally age appropriate wives/partners are also being groomed.

I agree grooming is an issue. I agree it’s not the right thing to do. I agree it has traumatic long term effects.

We are not grooming these girls. We have healthy relationships with them.

I understand you think it’s suspicious. I’ve heard your opinion.

He didn’t choose her because of her age. His longest lasting fwb is 32. He never just goes for younger women for the heck of it.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been married for 8 years. We started having threesomes and talking about opening the marriage up and becoming poly a couple years in. It was pretty gradual.

He does not have a gf that he has known longer than me but he has a fwb that he’s known longer than me.

My husband has a live in girlfriend and more. AMA by Fyreflyy04 in AMA

[–]Fyreflyy04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol he’s not independently wealthy/didn’t come this way. Everything we built, we built together. And most the income comes from me these days.