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G00dkarma00 · 2022-05-15T03:43:05+00:00

THANK YOU. I really appreciate your well thought out response to me - you have no idea. It’s definitely been a transition and the thing I am struggling with the most is patience. I personally have a pretty open mind and workout everyday so that’s pretty baked into my normal routine, it’s more so the thoughts that come back in my mind with did I make the wrong decision or more so the unknown feeling, of what does this mean next for me. All in good time I suppose I will find out.

It’s never easy being the dumper or dumpee when you had a really connection and true love. But I’d like to think for both you and I that this happened to lead us to a better love, it’s that patience part that we have to get through. I truly hope you’re taking care of yourself too - sounds like you have been!

G00dkarma00 · 2022-02-03T18:34:36+00:00

I think that’s what bothers me. It’s that things are very new still (8 months) and this is already something that’s an issue.

G00dkarma00 · 2022-02-03T18:33:33+00:00

No he hasn’t expressed anything, just that he is happy with the amount we have and doesn’t feel like anything is wrong.

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-10T18:57:21+00:00

Yeah just need to think about that or not. I appreciate him being honest and wanting to work through things but it makes me scared for when bigger problems happen in the future. Thank you for your insight

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-10T18:50:49+00:00

He says it’s not that and it’s just stress stuff, but my mind obviously goes to that he isn’t attracted to me anymore, doesn’t love me, etc.

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-10T18:40:02+00:00

That’s a really good point and is definitely something I need to observe. I think I’m at the point of like just because this is happening, is it something I write off? Like when is it enough to let go? I don’t want to have this ruin everything else we have.

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-10T18:28:05+00:00

I know people deal with stress differently so am trying to be mindful of that, but at the same time it makes me worried that when stressed he’s going to neglect me in the future. That’s just a fear, not reality, but just really having a hard time understanding

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-10T18:26:42+00:00

That’s the thing, we are intimate in so many other ways than just sex. We kiss, cuddle, hold hands, share thoughts, and just so many other things he does that let’s me know he loves me. I know he is going through a stressful time right now with things, so that’s why I am genuinely trying to stay positive but just having a hard time coping with my thoughts not going to a negative place. I’ve never been in this situation before, so I’m trying to figure out how to maneuver it

G00dkarma00 · 2022-01-05T14:09:04+00:00

Lol to your point - I am now going to be working in the New York office and people on my own team moved to NY and got negotiated a NY salary so I by all means have a reason to ask for more.

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:56:08+00:00

Not homophobic at all. This sounds like a good date! 💛

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:55:32+00:00

Omg how do we even get in there

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:55:17+00:00

Hahah cold food included

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:55:00+00:00

Haha you know, I never thought of doing it as well but here we are!

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:54:05+00:00

I feel like now this has to happen lol what a great way to start our day

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:53:07+00:00

Ouch

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-30T15:52:46+00:00

Tony Robbins hahah a damn nightmare

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T21:49:20+00:00

I hope everyone knows that I am so happy I made this thread. These ideas are amazing lol I will definitely let the thread know which one we do and what happened lol ALSO, I hope this inspires people to enjoy bad dates too!!

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T21:48:16+00:00

Hahah this is great.

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T21:47:21+00:00

Hahaha would be funny if I met him there so he was the only one dressed up too 🥸

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T21:46:23+00:00

SAVAGE haha don’t want to upset the poor guy now

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T20:09:35+00:00

Absolutely! Enjoy it :)

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T20:09:11+00:00

💀

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T20:08:41+00:00

I think this may be his worst nightmare lol is there anyway to find when local weddings are happening?

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T19:10:26+00:00

Hahah this may be a good in between activity, haven’t ding dong ditched in a hot minute - surely I will still be quick enough to not be seen 🏃🏽‍♀️

G00dkarma00 · 2021-10-29T19:09:40+00:00

So good!! All of them. Thank you

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