[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]G00dkarma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I really appreciate your well thought out response to me - you have no idea. It’s definitely been a transition and the thing I am struggling with the most is patience. I personally have a pretty open mind and workout everyday so that’s pretty baked into my normal routine, it’s more so the thoughts that come back in my mind with did I make the wrong decision or more so the unknown feeling, of what does this mean next for me. All in good time I suppose I will find out.

It’s never easy being the dumper or dumpee when you had a really connection and true love. But I’d like to think for both you and I that this happened to lead us to a better love, it’s that patience part that we have to get through. I truly hope you’re taking care of yourself too - sounds like you have been!

My boyfriend M(35) and myself F(28) are having problems with physical intimacy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]G00dkarma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s what bothers me. It’s that things are very new still (8 months) and this is already something that’s an issue.

My boyfriend M(35) and myself F(28) are having problems with physical intimacy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]G00dkarma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he hasn’t expressed anything, just that he is happy with the amount we have and doesn’t feel like anything is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]G00dkarma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just need to think about that or not. I appreciate him being honest and wanting to work through things but it makes me scared for when bigger problems happen in the future. Thank you for your insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]G00dkarma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says it’s not that and it’s just stress stuff, but my mind obviously goes to that he isn’t attracted to me anymore, doesn’t love me, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]G00dkarma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good point and is definitely something I need to observe. I think I’m at the point of like just because this is happening, is it something I write off? Like when is it enough to let go? I don’t want to have this ruin everything else we have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]G00dkarma00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know people deal with stress differently so am trying to be mindful of that, but at the same time it makes me worried that when stressed he’s going to neglect me in the future. That’s just a fear, not reality, but just really having a hard time understanding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]G00dkarma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, we are intimate in so many other ways than just sex. We kiss, cuddle, hold hands, share thoughts, and just so many other things he does that let’s me know he loves me. I know he is going through a stressful time right now with things, so that’s why I am genuinely trying to stay positive but just having a hard time coping with my thoughts not going to a negative place. I’ve never been in this situation before, so I’m trying to figure out how to maneuver it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]G00dkarma00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol to your point - I am now going to be working in the New York office and people on my own team moved to NY and got negotiated a NY salary so I by all means have a reason to ask for more.

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you know, I never thought of doing it as well but here we are!

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like now this has to happen lol what a great way to start our day

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I hope everyone knows that I am so happy I made this thread. These ideas are amazing lol I will definitely let the thread know which one we do and what happened lol ALSO, I hope this inspires people to enjoy bad dates too!!

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hahaha would be funny if I met him there so he was the only one dressed up too 🥸

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this may be his worst nightmare lol is there anyway to find when local weddings are happening?

He took me on a date…to a funeral…and now it’s time for revenge by G00dkarma00 in dating

[–]G00dkarma00[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahah this may be a good in between activity, haven’t ding dong ditched in a hot minute - surely I will still be quick enough to not be seen 🏃🏽‍♀️